LPT: In an awkward talk, start with what you know, not…
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LPT: In an awkward talk, start with what you know, not what you assume.
A lot of bad conversations get worse because people open with a guess and the other person instantly goes on defense.
For example, instead of saying,
“You are mad at me,”
I would say,
“You got quiet after I said that.”
That gives the other person something real to respond to instead of something they have to fight first.
Facts keep a hard talk calmer than guesses do.
#entertainment
A lot of bad conversations get worse because people open with a guess and the other person instantly goes on defense.
For example, instead of saying,
“You are mad at me,”
I would say,
“You got quiet after I said that.”
That gives the other person something real to respond to instead of something they have to fight first.
Facts keep a hard talk calmer than guesses do.
#entertainment
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