Ladies, let's talk. π
Having standards doesn't mean expecting a perfect man.
It means knowing what you can and cannot live with.
I don't need a man who never makes mistakes.
I need a man who can admit when he's wrong.
I don't need someone who is available 24/7.
I need someone who makes an effort to stay connected.
I don't need perfection.
I need intentionality.
I don't need someone who says all the right things.
I need someone whose actions don't constantly contradict his words.
And no, wanting respect, consistency, affection and genuine effort isn't asking for too much.
The real question is:
Are your standards realistic, or are they simply things you need to feel secure and respected?
There's a difference.
Let's discuss. πππ½