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Coping with moving grief
I came to Germany in 2023 to study masters in Aachen and I am almost at the end of my studies, and this year in April I move to Stuttgart for work. I just really liked my life in Aachen.
For Ostern, I returned to my apartment in Aachen and this immediate feeling of relaxation and peace just hit me and I realised how much I missed here. I like my apartment here, I like the nature, the quality of water and air, the nice buildings, the closeness to Köln, Düsseldorf and nearby countries such as the Netherlands, Belgium etc.
I think I’m becoming depressed and grieving the completion of my life in Aachen. It happened so suddenly, I feel like I could stay here one more year. I don’t think I like Stuttgart so much. It has better transportation but I feel so disconnected from nature. I used to walk 30 minutes from my apartment and I was at the outer circle of the city. In Stuttgart, I can’t escape the city. Everyone advises me to visit Königstraße and I don’t like there at all. The people’s behaviors are also a bit different than in Aachen. I can’t see myself living in Stuttgart for the rest of my life. I want to process this grief and learn to cope because I am learning a lot of valuable knowledge at my current job which will help my career. I’m looking for some advice from someone who experienced something similar.
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I came to Germany in 2023 to study masters in Aachen and I am almost at the end of my studies, and this year in April I move to Stuttgart for work. I just really liked my life in Aachen.
For Ostern, I returned to my apartment in Aachen and this immediate feeling of relaxation and peace just hit me and I realised how much I missed here. I like my apartment here, I like the nature, the quality of water and air, the nice buildings, the closeness to Köln, Düsseldorf and nearby countries such as the Netherlands, Belgium etc.
I think I’m becoming depressed and grieving the completion of my life in Aachen. It happened so suddenly, I feel like I could stay here one more year. I don’t think I like Stuttgart so much. It has better transportation but I feel so disconnected from nature. I used to walk 30 minutes from my apartment and I was at the outer circle of the city. In Stuttgart, I can’t escape the city. Everyone advises me to visit Königstraße and I don’t like there at all. The people’s behaviors are also a bit different than in Aachen. I can’t see myself living in Stuttgart for the rest of my life. I want to process this grief and learn to cope because I am learning a lot of valuable knowledge at my current job which will help my career. I’m looking for some advice from someone who experienced something similar.
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