Got kicked out from my parents and now don't know what to…
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Got kicked out from my parents and now don't know what to do
I (23m) got kicked out of my parents house , I don't know what to do or what to expect, some advice would be amazing rn
How it happened:
Ill try to keep it a simple explanation , my parents have always been very abusive towards me and my brother , both mentally and physically, especially physically. I got into a fight with my father and things got heated , he started beating me and screaming at me everything he could think of , at some point things escalated even more and I was scared for my life so I tried to defend myself from him , after that he kicked me out and threatened me to never come back ( my mom was watching the whole thing but she never really cared about me or my brother as long as it didn't bother her ), I had enough time to take all my documents and a pair of clothes but that's about it.
My situation:
My family transfered here not too long ago (3 years ago at the end of this year it's gonna be 4) ( we're from Italy) so my German is not that good still (b1) , I have a Minijob but I asked them if I could start teilzeit and they said yes but I need to wait for the contract ( I asked for Vollzeit at first but they couldn't give me that only teilzeit ) I also was gonna start Abendschule ( and German course ) soon ( I got accepted I just need to wait till it starts for everyone) but I don't know if I can anymore at least not until I get stable again , it's been a few days since , I stayed at some friends house but his parents didn't feel comfortable with me staying too long there ( they didn't directly tell me but they made it clear ) so I got myself a hostel ( in hamburg ) using some of my savings , I also went to Jobcenter and explained my situation, they told me to apply for Bürgergeld and to hope that I get accepted for it , also that I need to look for a place by myself .
Mentally I'm going through a roller coaster, my brain
Is having a hard time accepting that this is my reality now , Im having a hard time remembering anything and I feel like my emotions are shut off sometimes
My brother's is still with them , they told him that from now I am dead to them and that I'm not longer part of the family , he is on my side and is trying to help me as much as he can but I told him to stay there until I find a place and maybe we can live together ( legally I still have my name there and he said to still use that address for post and that he will give me whatever comes for me )
I don't know what else to do , they told me to wait for an answer for burgergeld but I feel like I could be more productive with that time
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I (23m) got kicked out of my parents house , I don't know what to do or what to expect, some advice would be amazing rn
How it happened:
Ill try to keep it a simple explanation , my parents have always been very abusive towards me and my brother , both mentally and physically, especially physically. I got into a fight with my father and things got heated , he started beating me and screaming at me everything he could think of , at some point things escalated even more and I was scared for my life so I tried to defend myself from him , after that he kicked me out and threatened me to never come back ( my mom was watching the whole thing but she never really cared about me or my brother as long as it didn't bother her ), I had enough time to take all my documents and a pair of clothes but that's about it.
My situation:
My family transfered here not too long ago (3 years ago at the end of this year it's gonna be 4) ( we're from Italy) so my German is not that good still (b1) , I have a Minijob but I asked them if I could start teilzeit and they said yes but I need to wait for the contract ( I asked for Vollzeit at first but they couldn't give me that only teilzeit ) I also was gonna start Abendschule ( and German course ) soon ( I got accepted I just need to wait till it starts for everyone) but I don't know if I can anymore at least not until I get stable again , it's been a few days since , I stayed at some friends house but his parents didn't feel comfortable with me staying too long there ( they didn't directly tell me but they made it clear ) so I got myself a hostel ( in hamburg ) using some of my savings , I also went to Jobcenter and explained my situation, they told me to apply for Bürgergeld and to hope that I get accepted for it , also that I need to look for a place by myself .
Mentally I'm going through a roller coaster, my brain
Is having a hard time accepting that this is my reality now , Im having a hard time remembering anything and I feel like my emotions are shut off sometimes
My brother's is still with them , they told him that from now I am dead to them and that I'm not longer part of the family , he is on my side and is trying to help me as much as he can but I told him to stay there until I find a place and maybe we can live together ( legally I still have my name there and he said to still use that address for post and that he will give me whatever comes for me )
I don't know what else to do , they told me to wait for an answer for burgergeld but I feel like I could be more productive with that time
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