how to make genuine relationships? i've been living in my…
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how to make genuine relationships?
i've been living in my wrangler for quite a while now and i honestly don't think i'm going to stop. i'm a traveling CNA and i get to see different states and go wherever whenever and if i want more money i just work shifts in the area i'm in.
i've been trying to make friends or go on dates but i just can't bring myself to lie about my "situation". i'm shamelessly doing the car living thing and i have everything i need and very little of what i don't need. but when i end up being honest and telling guys where i live and how i live, they start to treat me like a homeless person.
some people ghost after days/weeks of great conversation. some try to be nice and offer me a place to sleep or a shower but it just comes off as pity. when they do that i try to stress that i like living like this and i'm not in a bad situation and this is not punishment for me. i'm clean cut and well dressed even for work. i shower at PF, i go to the laundromat, i work during the day and sleep when it's dark. i eat out and keep a small pantry in my tire jack compartment. i still do all the things normal people do just in a different manner.
i'm not someone who can stomach lying or faking a lifestyle that i don't actually have. and i don't think i want to become that guy who puts on a facade of what his life is truly like. i don't think there's anything wrong with what i'm doing but it seems that the entire world is just "normies" who see a homeless man.
does anyone have trouble making bonds? especially those who don't remain in one city or state? it's starting to suck and i feel lonely. a lot.
#lifestyle
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i've been living in my wrangler for quite a while now and i honestly don't think i'm going to stop. i'm a traveling CNA and i get to see different states and go wherever whenever and if i want more money i just work shifts in the area i'm in.
i've been trying to make friends or go on dates but i just can't bring myself to lie about my "situation". i'm shamelessly doing the car living thing and i have everything i need and very little of what i don't need. but when i end up being honest and telling guys where i live and how i live, they start to treat me like a homeless person.
some people ghost after days/weeks of great conversation. some try to be nice and offer me a place to sleep or a shower but it just comes off as pity. when they do that i try to stress that i like living like this and i'm not in a bad situation and this is not punishment for me. i'm clean cut and well dressed even for work. i shower at PF, i go to the laundromat, i work during the day and sleep when it's dark. i eat out and keep a small pantry in my tire jack compartment. i still do all the things normal people do just in a different manner.
i'm not someone who can stomach lying or faking a lifestyle that i don't actually have. and i don't think i want to become that guy who puts on a facade of what his life is truly like. i don't think there's anything wrong with what i'm doing but it seems that the entire world is just "normies" who see a homeless man.
does anyone have trouble making bonds? especially those who don't remain in one city or state? it's starting to suck and i feel lonely. a lot.
#lifestyle
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