LPT : Always take the initiative when it comes to picking people to trust
Predators, thieves, and simple assholes look for vulnerable victims. They are proactive. Normal, decent people, compared to assholes, are more passive, specifically because they aren't on the prowl. Fortunately, though, most people are cool. All you really have to do is keep assholes from self selecting themselves into your life.
The best way to do this is to approach people yourself, whether it's for help, support, friendship or romance. Always take the initiative, treat volunteers with caution. #entertainment