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Following recent events, Septamber came out and stated that she had lied about having a date for her operation and also that someone had taken control of her account.
I'm looking at this from the perspective of in the Philippines one has to pay for medical treatment. Considering the condition she is in which she is verifying with documentation, I can understand how she would be panicking and trying to get support out of desperation in order to actually get treatment. She is young, and going through a lot. I think that for now it is probably best to give things the benefit of the doubt, and not apply too much pressure. I understand I have no right to ask this, but I firmly believe these are the actions of someone who is young and has made mistakes potentially due to her condition. We are all ultimately human beings, we make mistakes, and damage ourselves and others in the process. - More-so when we are young, or when we are under extreme stresses.
We have a situation where someone is experiencing seizures as a potential result of the brain tumor. Seizures can and have been known to affect a person's ability to make good judgments and decisions, depression and anxiety can also prompt people to act irrationally. She appears to be living life under extreme pressure at the moment. Currently she is posting information to us and letting us know. I know that is little consolation to the people who feel deceived and betrayed, but I believe the situation is very real and she has just dealt with things really, really badly. Her video that she released recently, she does not look well and I believe her ability to make sound judgments at this time is not fantastic. Looking at her deterioration from her pictures a few months back and her recent video, it is concerning.
I have experience dealing with seizures and cognitive impairment, having worked as a carer for many years asides from my marketing and musical composition. So this seems genuinely like it's something that's come from a combination of the pressures on her and not from any wish to deceive. Bare in mind, I might be wrong, but you know her more than me.
I think that it may be best to give her some time to get her treatment, and get well. Every single one of the people who donated to and supported her is a goddamned living legend , you should be proud for doing the right thing for the right reason, even if you feel like you have been deceived. She is still the same person you wanted to help and you might save her life. I've talked with her briefly this morning and she is really upset about everything.
All I can say is I do not believe that she meant to deceive people, I don't believe she was thinking rationally and acted out of necessity, panicked, and everything went FUBAR and got out of control. I may be very wrong, but I think with a community as strong and as amazing as the people on this platform, who were willing to do so much to help her, I truly believe that she loves you for all you've done for her.
Following recent events, Septamber came out and stated that she had lied about having a date for her operation and also that someone had taken control of her account.
I'm looking at this from the perspective of in the Philippines one has to pay for medical treatment. Considering the condition she is in which she is verifying with documentation, I can understand how she would be panicking and trying to get support out of desperation in order to actually get treatment. She is young, and going through a lot. I think that for now it is probably best to give things the benefit of the doubt, and not apply too much pressure. I understand I have no right to ask this, but I firmly believe these are the actions of someone who is young and has made mistakes potentially due to her condition. We are all ultimately human beings, we make mistakes, and damage ourselves and others in the process. - More-so when we are young, or when we are under extreme stresses.
We have a situation where someone is experiencing seizures as a potential result of the brain tumor. Seizures can and have been known to affect a person's ability to make good judgments and decisions, depression and anxiety can also prompt people to act irrationally. She appears to be living life under extreme pressure at the moment. Currently she is posting information to us and letting us know. I know that is little consolation to the people who feel deceived and betrayed, but I believe the situation is very real and she has just dealt with things really, really badly. Her video that she released recently, she does not look well and I believe her ability to make sound judgments at this time is not fantastic. Looking at her deterioration from her pictures a few months back and her recent video, it is concerning.
I have experience dealing with seizures and cognitive impairment, having worked as a carer for many years asides from my marketing and musical composition. So this seems genuinely like it's something that's come from a combination of the pressures on her and not from any wish to deceive. Bare in mind, I might be wrong, but you know her more than me.
I think that it may be best to give her some time to get her treatment, and get well. Every single one of the people who donated to and supported her is a goddamned living legend , you should be proud for doing the right thing for the right reason, even if you feel like you have been deceived. She is still the same person you wanted to help and you might save her life. I've talked with her briefly this morning and she is really upset about everything.
All I can say is I do not believe that she meant to deceive people, I don't believe she was thinking rationally and acted out of necessity, panicked, and everything went FUBAR and got out of control. I may be very wrong, but I think with a community as strong and as amazing as the people on this platform, who were willing to do so much to help her, I truly believe that she loves you for all you've done for her.
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she deleted her account (right after transferring all of our donations to
what's your take now?
what's your take now?
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I still think she made a mistake and panicked. I do believe that she is genuinely ill and trying to get treatment, however I could definitely be wrong. It’s not a lot of money to lose one’s reputation over and she did look ill in her video that she did before she left.
Sorry, Dude❗🤔 I'm not crying a River❗SHE IS A LIAR❗Philippines have a system to go through to get help. She totally fooled everybody. I'm mad that I donated what I could. I'm poor as FUck❗Struggling❗😂 #salfrodothoughts #salfrodoisadick
There will be consequences for what she did. Trust is the most difficult to regain.
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I agree, it’s just complicated for me. I’ve got friends who struggle with seizures, one of my friends reverts to a little kid sometimes following one and can’t even talk. Carework has also put me in the path of seeing what people can do at times. Maybe I’m just soft or foolish.