Why is sex naturally better with one person vs another? It&#039;s crazy, isn&#039;t it? I had one partner who was attractive and I was attracted to him. We had a good time. We got along together well. It was good. There was nothing &quot;wrong.&quot; And you meet another person...and it&#039;s out the stratosphere. Immediate, perfect. Before you even get into discussing what you want and like, well, we didn&#039;t have to. There was just flow and harmony at the very beginning. It&#039;s like our bodies are meant for each other. Why such a potent difference with one person vs another? The mechanics are the same. The dick&#039;s going in the hole. The mouth&#039;s on the whatever. Technically, they&#039;re both skilled. I came with both. But him? The orgasms are in different spheres. The chemistry was immediate, potent. It felt like a perfect match, tailor-made just for me, and just for him. Attraction is weird. ETA: For example, with one partner, before we even talked much, I remember being struck by his hands. They weren&#039;t anything out of the ordinary, but when I saw them, I had a feeling I could *trust* them, as weird as it sounds. And I didn&#039;t have a hand fetish or anything like that, lol. But when I saw his body, there was an immediate sense of trust and flow. I knew we would go well together. And we did. And body-wise, I liked his taste and smell that locked so well with mine. This is just one factor of this overall sexual compatibility that naturally, immediately occurs with some people vs others. ETA: Another factor is that women are evolved to essentially &#039;smell&#039; out men that are more genetically diverse to them (or at least a better genetic match). &gt;*Studies show that if you are on the pill, you are more likely to gravitate toward men who smell like you (possibly because the pill simulates pregnancy and pregnant women are drawn toward nurturing and supportive biological relatives, or folks who smell like them). In this way, the pill acts like an anti-cupid, steering you away from your ideal romantic match.* It&#039;s why when you&#039;re on the birth control pill, because of your suppressed ovulation, you&#039;re most <a rel="noreferrer nofollow noopener" href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5050240/" target="_blank">https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5050240/</a> likely to choose partners <a rel="noreferrer nofollow noopener" href="https://behavioralscientist.org/quality-sex-relationships-birth-control-pill-research-effects/" target="_blank">https://behavioralscientist.org/quality-sex-relationships-birth-control-pill-research-effects/</a> you would never choose <a rel="noreferrer nofollow noopener" href="https://www.floliving.com/birth-control-relationships/" target="_blank">https://www.floliving.com/birth-control-relationships/</a> if you were off it. (Studies linked.)