*_Our Commitment Conscious Society_* If there is a fear of burglary in the house, a pistol can be bought. To work on time. This can be called a precautionary measure. But you don't start pulling that pistol on every house guest? If you do, people will stop coming to your house. Just as a safety measure we are making our daughters financially independent. The aim is that at some point in life, if such circumstances arise that he has to earn for himself, it should not be difficult. Able to live without any need and if one is talented, one can advance in one's field or hobby. But daughters shoulder this pistol of independence and enter into the most important relationship of life and think of it as an opponent and turn on their closest relation i.e. husband. I am not your slave. I am not uneducated to believe everything you say. I am educated, how dare he call me like that I can earn my own food, I don't need you. Seventy percent of relationships with people who start relationships with this mindset end within the first two to three years. And the rate of "displaced with one child" among relationship groups is increasing. From the most backward countries around the world to the most modern countries of the West, if the relationship between husband and wife works, then it is based on mutual understanding. By accepting the good and bad of the life partner. By accepting his weaknesses and making your strengths his strengths. In response, the other is also willing to walk with you. And when the time comes, He replaces your weaknesses with His strength. The biggest misunderstanding that we have. What has been inculcated in the minds of the girls is that in this relationship the dependence is only on money. If she earns herself, what is the need of everyone else? While in fact, in this relationship, instead of your body and soul, the other person also joins with his body and soul. Your countless physical, spiritual, and psychological needs depend on his time, attention, effort, and willingness. If girls only understand that in this relationship they also need a living person as much as their husband. So maybe they should stop waving the autocracy pistol about it.