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To Every Man Who Comments ‘You Didn’t Fool Me Bro’ on a Trans Girl’s Pic: Yes We Did, and You’re Mad About It
\[I speak about Men often as the subject of my post, but this can be any individual of any gender identity or sexual orientation. It just is prevalent in heterosexual male culture\]
I want to make a statement of opinion here, which is controversial, and not usually my forte or shtick, but I feel my opinion is extremely valid, and based in empathy and kindness, compassion and love for one another as human beings, and as someone who has been directly affected by it. I take pride in NOT getting into modern political social issues and providing my perspective. HOWEVER I believe in this my opinion holds weight:
The whole “trans women aren’t women”, the mass of cisgender (born as that sexual biological anatomy) men, who feel the NEED or WANT even to post on any, many, it’s extremely prevalent in trans culture and on our social medias and even in day to day life, though most are only comfortable enough to stand toe to toe when behind a keyboard, and I know any of you who would seek to displace me with it, wouldn’t dare say it to my face, cause yall steady know I’m a real one, and I don’t talk shit, I end shit.
But that aside, many (not most, not all, not making a generalization, I think all men (trans or cisgender) are capable of empathy, compassion, kindness, even human decency, or the ability to share a contrasting perspective, view or opinion, without a negative remark or just moving into generalizations and even personal remarks that are derogatory. But many cis men who CHOSE to interact with trans women, just like to without any provocation, throw in their face with a comment, or better a DM, their opinion on how Trans Women aren’t women, sometimes as that, more often as “You’re not tricking anyone bro”, “you put the He in She”, “that neck tell a different story” or my favorite the proud one who needs to cry out “you didn’t fool me” or selling “trans women aren’t women. It’s literally science dude. There’s two genders.” 😈
Firstly, that’s just unkind, it’s cruel, it’s based in TRANSPHOBIC, homophobia aside, trans women can be every sexual orientation under the moon, it is just a remark someone feels the NEED or just the compulsion and thoughtless urge to scream at someone through a comment on a girls new profile pic, or a reel they posted, a TikTok, etc, where in many trans women who are actively and regularly performing content creation are trying to get more comfortable in their own skin, and their existence, not because they have a mental illness, or lack confidence, or self esteem-
Which I’ve met more trans women who have confidence and rizz than any of yall have hairs on your ass.
But rather-it is a comment or remark shared way too often and too common in usually “heterosexual males” who feel the need to try to disturbs or destabilize, perhaps intimidate, or correct something THEY see as wrong. I personally think many times this is happening an a person not even men just individuals in general feel a need to act in such a manner, I contemplate, because on some level, even if subconscious or unconscious, they feel the same natural attraction they feel towards a cisgender woman, because of the display and representation of the individual coming off feminine. They then consciously perceive their sense of attraction to the individual, and then they decide they need to Correct not just the trans woman, even trans men, I know this happens certainly to as well, I just live the inverse, it’s easier to speak on, but they also feel the compulsive NEED to CORRECT that they ever felt some sense of arousal, attraction, even just general eye up and down, because they recognize it as homosexual, and “thats gay bro, fuck that, gotta f@g bash” which is entirely caused by THEIR OWN cognitive dissonance.
I’m not at all here to discuss gender identity in relation to sexual orientation, that’s an entirely different issue, but that is the issue THEY are having. And the performance to throw shade, to be cruel, debasing, selling opinion or in ANY regard a subjective perspective, humans are incapable of Objectivity or an Absolute Truth, ie read Kant, most yall never even looked at philosophy and it shows all over your comprehension and comment decision.
But I’d like to put into perspective, my own perspective, which is solely subjective, I am not here to sell or discredit anyone or anything:
Trans women, have the gender identity of being a woman, or female. They are saying this what I am, this is what my name is, this is what my pronouns are, and these are my boundaries, and this is how I would like to be perceived and interpreted.
I think that it’s again a different issue to discuss human cooperation or willingness to contribute to also agreeing to use the right gendered terms, to see them as the want to be seen and to treat them as they would like to be treated. I believe as myself and a trans woman, that personally I prefer people see me as I Am, call me Juuls my preferred name, and gender me appropriately. HOWEVER, I’m realistic, and I see that Transitioning is deciding to break from Consensus Reality, and then to try to get others who are firm believers in consensus reality to play this way with me. Again that topic is cooperation not gender identity versus biological sex and Anatomy. Which takes us exactly where I wanted…
I view the true argument that individuals against trans women use, even sell as a biological fact, is that they are equating gender identity and sex, or biological anatomy at birth. Or gender and anatomy. They are NOT equivocal. Trans women are saying that their gender identity, the way they view themselves and their existence in the world and society is female, feminine, and that of a woman. I don’t believe many if any are trying to “sell themselves” as cisgender women, or say they have the same biological anatomy as a cisgender, biological female has.
Yes, it is a fact, of modern and current science. Which is always up to the universe to decide to drop new gnosis and stir the pot in a new fascinating way…but is is sciences view that biologically, anatomically, humans are a binary species when it comes to there is only two possibilities, male or female. That is why trans women are saying they IDENTIFY as women. They feel they feel the same as a cisgender woman, however they aren’t claiming (atleast if some of yarrgh, then I mean to each their own 🤣) that they don’t have a penis, and they in fact have a vagina.
The predominant and largest cause of bigotry, misogyny, transphobic statements, and other data that lacks even basic human decency and integrity, let along sympathy cause obviously you can’t empathize, but the truth is IGNORANCE, or lack of understanding, or a narrower world view. It’s a lack of intent to make oneself knowledgeable on a subject or matter before deciding to speak. I think in modern society (it’s 2026 somehow, I have no idea how I’ve made it this far…)
It should be a very sought and common thing to seek education, not even academic, I’m saying informed opinion, before deciding to share their stance. Especially as a gross comment on a cute girls photo.
Ignorance may be your bliss, but it’s gonna have ya taking the piss.
The lack of respect, but even just human decency in modern society in any regard is a gross tragedy of an growing ever more interconnected age, where people can speak freely, usually without consequences, from behind a screen, to be harmful to someone they usually don’t even know personally.
That just makes me sad. That’s why I spent the time and felt the want to write this piece today. I’m deeply saddened by today’s moral grounds and lack of basic ethics for one another. We are so divided, we can’t even pick a common enemy.
As an American this perception is largely heightened. I know many fantastic individuals who I would proudly state and share are in fact great human beings, and should they throw shade they’re probably doing divine will. Humans aren’t innately flawed, it’s that we’ve preferred comfort over growth, immaturity over rationality, and cruelty over kindness.
Just saying it’s clear some of yall didn’t have a healthy or positive maternal figure, just with how women are treated in general, but especially trans women and trans individuals as a whole.
This is your red flag, this is why that girl on Duet dipped out after your last remark. Humans as a whole are regressing. Morality is a pursuit of altruism.
We didn’t even keep the golden rule, treat others as you’d like to be treated. If you’re able to stay catching yourself or even able to spend a conscious second to reflect before you speak or comment to someone, and think, would I say this to my self, if i was them? If the answer is no, then the best and most compassionate and respectful answer is to say nothing at all.
That’s my piece, take it or leave it, it’s your life. I’m just not gonna be a bystander in a world of observation and disdain on display.
Time to grow up, get real, and stop acting out of shame and start acting out of integrity.
#lifestyle
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\[I speak about Men often as the subject of my post, but this can be any individual of any gender identity or sexual orientation. It just is prevalent in heterosexual male culture\]
I want to make a statement of opinion here, which is controversial, and not usually my forte or shtick, but I feel my opinion is extremely valid, and based in empathy and kindness, compassion and love for one another as human beings, and as someone who has been directly affected by it. I take pride in NOT getting into modern political social issues and providing my perspective. HOWEVER I believe in this my opinion holds weight:
The whole “trans women aren’t women”, the mass of cisgender (born as that sexual biological anatomy) men, who feel the NEED or WANT even to post on any, many, it’s extremely prevalent in trans culture and on our social medias and even in day to day life, though most are only comfortable enough to stand toe to toe when behind a keyboard, and I know any of you who would seek to displace me with it, wouldn’t dare say it to my face, cause yall steady know I’m a real one, and I don’t talk shit, I end shit.
But that aside, many (not most, not all, not making a generalization, I think all men (trans or cisgender) are capable of empathy, compassion, kindness, even human decency, or the ability to share a contrasting perspective, view or opinion, without a negative remark or just moving into generalizations and even personal remarks that are derogatory. But many cis men who CHOSE to interact with trans women, just like to without any provocation, throw in their face with a comment, or better a DM, their opinion on how Trans Women aren’t women, sometimes as that, more often as “You’re not tricking anyone bro”, “you put the He in She”, “that neck tell a different story” or my favorite the proud one who needs to cry out “you didn’t fool me” or selling “trans women aren’t women. It’s literally science dude. There’s two genders.” 😈
Firstly, that’s just unkind, it’s cruel, it’s based in TRANSPHOBIC, homophobia aside, trans women can be every sexual orientation under the moon, it is just a remark someone feels the NEED or just the compulsion and thoughtless urge to scream at someone through a comment on a girls new profile pic, or a reel they posted, a TikTok, etc, where in many trans women who are actively and regularly performing content creation are trying to get more comfortable in their own skin, and their existence, not because they have a mental illness, or lack confidence, or self esteem-
Which I’ve met more trans women who have confidence and rizz than any of yall have hairs on your ass.
But rather-it is a comment or remark shared way too often and too common in usually “heterosexual males” who feel the need to try to disturbs or destabilize, perhaps intimidate, or correct something THEY see as wrong. I personally think many times this is happening an a person not even men just individuals in general feel a need to act in such a manner, I contemplate, because on some level, even if subconscious or unconscious, they feel the same natural attraction they feel towards a cisgender woman, because of the display and representation of the individual coming off feminine. They then consciously perceive their sense of attraction to the individual, and then they decide they need to Correct not just the trans woman, even trans men, I know this happens certainly to as well, I just live the inverse, it’s easier to speak on, but they also feel the compulsive NEED to CORRECT that they ever felt some sense of arousal, attraction, even just general eye up and down, because they recognize it as homosexual, and “thats gay bro, fuck that, gotta f@g bash” which is entirely caused by THEIR OWN cognitive dissonance.
I’m not at all here to discuss gender identity in relation to sexual orientation, that’s an entirely different issue, but that is the issue THEY are having. And the performance to throw shade, to be cruel, debasing, selling opinion or in ANY regard a subjective perspective, humans are incapable of Objectivity or an Absolute Truth, ie read Kant, most yall never even looked at philosophy and it shows all over your comprehension and comment decision.
But I’d like to put into perspective, my own perspective, which is solely subjective, I am not here to sell or discredit anyone or anything:
Trans women, have the gender identity of being a woman, or female. They are saying this what I am, this is what my name is, this is what my pronouns are, and these are my boundaries, and this is how I would like to be perceived and interpreted.
I think that it’s again a different issue to discuss human cooperation or willingness to contribute to also agreeing to use the right gendered terms, to see them as the want to be seen and to treat them as they would like to be treated. I believe as myself and a trans woman, that personally I prefer people see me as I Am, call me Juuls my preferred name, and gender me appropriately. HOWEVER, I’m realistic, and I see that Transitioning is deciding to break from Consensus Reality, and then to try to get others who are firm believers in consensus reality to play this way with me. Again that topic is cooperation not gender identity versus biological sex and Anatomy. Which takes us exactly where I wanted…
I view the true argument that individuals against trans women use, even sell as a biological fact, is that they are equating gender identity and sex, or biological anatomy at birth. Or gender and anatomy. They are NOT equivocal. Trans women are saying that their gender identity, the way they view themselves and their existence in the world and society is female, feminine, and that of a woman. I don’t believe many if any are trying to “sell themselves” as cisgender women, or say they have the same biological anatomy as a cisgender, biological female has.
Yes, it is a fact, of modern and current science. Which is always up to the universe to decide to drop new gnosis and stir the pot in a new fascinating way…but is is sciences view that biologically, anatomically, humans are a binary species when it comes to there is only two possibilities, male or female. That is why trans women are saying they IDENTIFY as women. They feel they feel the same as a cisgender woman, however they aren’t claiming (atleast if some of yarrgh, then I mean to each their own 🤣) that they don’t have a penis, and they in fact have a vagina.
The predominant and largest cause of bigotry, misogyny, transphobic statements, and other data that lacks even basic human decency and integrity, let along sympathy cause obviously you can’t empathize, but the truth is IGNORANCE, or lack of understanding, or a narrower world view. It’s a lack of intent to make oneself knowledgeable on a subject or matter before deciding to speak. I think in modern society (it’s 2026 somehow, I have no idea how I’ve made it this far…)
It should be a very sought and common thing to seek education, not even academic, I’m saying informed opinion, before deciding to share their stance. Especially as a gross comment on a cute girls photo.
Ignorance may be your bliss, but it’s gonna have ya taking the piss.
The lack of respect, but even just human decency in modern society in any regard is a gross tragedy of an growing ever more interconnected age, where people can speak freely, usually without consequences, from behind a screen, to be harmful to someone they usually don’t even know personally.
That just makes me sad. That’s why I spent the time and felt the want to write this piece today. I’m deeply saddened by today’s moral grounds and lack of basic ethics for one another. We are so divided, we can’t even pick a common enemy.
As an American this perception is largely heightened. I know many fantastic individuals who I would proudly state and share are in fact great human beings, and should they throw shade they’re probably doing divine will. Humans aren’t innately flawed, it’s that we’ve preferred comfort over growth, immaturity over rationality, and cruelty over kindness.
Just saying it’s clear some of yall didn’t have a healthy or positive maternal figure, just with how women are treated in general, but especially trans women and trans individuals as a whole.
This is your red flag, this is why that girl on Duet dipped out after your last remark. Humans as a whole are regressing. Morality is a pursuit of altruism.
We didn’t even keep the golden rule, treat others as you’d like to be treated. If you’re able to stay catching yourself or even able to spend a conscious second to reflect before you speak or comment to someone, and think, would I say this to my self, if i was them? If the answer is no, then the best and most compassionate and respectful answer is to say nothing at all.
That’s my piece, take it or leave it, it’s your life. I’m just not gonna be a bystander in a world of observation and disdain on display.
Time to grow up, get real, and stop acting out of shame and start acting out of integrity.
#lifestyle
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