Pakistani parents and the eldest child I don't know why…
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Pakistani parents and the eldest child
I don't know why Pakistani parents are so obsessed with the eldest child, whether a boy or a girl. They just think the eldest child has an answer to everything. That child keeps hearing the same thing since childhood: to be responsible, to be wise, and to carry parents and siblings on their shoulders even when they haven't properly grown up. And as they grow up, everything becomes the eldest child's responsibility, whether they are ready for it or not. They just become an emotional container for everyone else, where they feel extremely lonely in their own home. Why does no one care about that person who is the eldest one in the family? Why do they think that since he/she has been taking care of everything, they don't need to be taken care of, cherished, and appreciated?
How do you cope up with this??
#current_events #local
I don't know why Pakistani parents are so obsessed with the eldest child, whether a boy or a girl. They just think the eldest child has an answer to everything. That child keeps hearing the same thing since childhood: to be responsible, to be wise, and to carry parents and siblings on their shoulders even when they haven't properly grown up. And as they grow up, everything becomes the eldest child's responsibility, whether they are ready for it or not. They just become an emotional container for everyone else, where they feel extremely lonely in their own home. Why does no one care about that person who is the eldest one in the family? Why do they think that since he/she has been taking care of everything, they don't need to be taken care of, cherished, and appreciated?
How do you cope up with this??
#current_events #local
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