When you and your (formerly) good friend planned to go on a fishing trip together so you take the day off in advance just to get ghosted by him on the day it should start so you decide to not let their actions ruin your day and you go full cowboy mode, pack your gear and drinks, cycle about 40km to some big forest to slip on sandy hills through the "Die Haard" route to chill and camp alone in the woods.
I made it my case to stop trying and chasing people who ultimatly disregard my time and presence by whatever selfish attitude they have. Once is a mistake, twice is a behaviour.