Are you anticipating or expecting? Anxiety about the…
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Are you anticipating or expecting?
Anxiety about the unknown often comes from the emotional weight we attach to our expectations. The more we expect something to happen a certain way, the more disappointment we feel if it doesn’t. But since expectations are a natural part of being human, how do we manage the anxiety that comes with them?
It starts with understanding the difference between expectation and anticipation.
Expectation is a belief about what is likely to happen based on past experience or reasoning. It’s a logical prediction—neutral and cognitive. For example, you might expect a meeting to start on time because that’s the usual pattern. There’s no strong emotional attachment; it’s just what you assume will happen.
Anticipation, however, carries an emotional charge. It’s not just about predicting an event but about how you feel leading up to it. It often includes excitement, eagerness, or anxiety. For example, if you’re anticipating a job interview, you’re not just expecting it to happen—you’re emotionally invested in the outcome.
Anxiety about the unknown comes when we mix expectation with anticipation, especially when we focus on what could go wrong. The stronger our emotional attachment, the more fear we feel about uncertainty. Recognizing this can help us manage our emotions by shifting our focus away from rigid expectations and toward curiosity, flexibility, and openness to different outcomes. When we stop attaching anxiety to expectations, the unknown becomes less threatening and more of an opportunity.
If this reached you or there was something that truly resonated with you, please like and share in hopes this will maybe reach someone that it could help.
-Coach Mike
EDIT your GOALS
Every
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#anxiety #curiosity #anticipation #expectations #journey
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Anxiety about the unknown often comes from the emotional weight we attach to our expectations. The more we expect something to happen a certain way, the more disappointment we feel if it doesn’t. But since expectations are a natural part of being human, how do we manage the anxiety that comes with them?
It starts with understanding the difference between expectation and anticipation.
Expectation is a belief about what is likely to happen based on past experience or reasoning. It’s a logical prediction—neutral and cognitive. For example, you might expect a meeting to start on time because that’s the usual pattern. There’s no strong emotional attachment; it’s just what you assume will happen.
Anticipation, however, carries an emotional charge. It’s not just about predicting an event but about how you feel leading up to it. It often includes excitement, eagerness, or anxiety. For example, if you’re anticipating a job interview, you’re not just expecting it to happen—you’re emotionally invested in the outcome.
Anxiety about the unknown comes when we mix expectation with anticipation, especially when we focus on what could go wrong. The stronger our emotional attachment, the more fear we feel about uncertainty. Recognizing this can help us manage our emotions by shifting our focus away from rigid expectations and toward curiosity, flexibility, and openness to different outcomes. When we stop attaching anxiety to expectations, the unknown becomes less threatening and more of an opportunity.
If this reached you or there was something that truly resonated with you, please like and share in hopes this will maybe reach someone that it could help.
-Coach Mike
EDIT your GOALS
Every
Day
Internal
Thoughts
Guarantees
Our
Absolute
Life
Situations
#anxiety #curiosity #anticipation #expectations #journey
Background Picture by
Pawel Janiak
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