25M in India — Why does modern dating feel so exhausting…
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25M in India — Why does modern dating feel so exhausting and fake these days? Ladies, I genuinely want to hear your side.
Hi everyone,
I’m 25 and have been actively trying to date seriously for the past couple of years (mostly through apps + a few mutual friends). On paper everything looks fine — decent job, good family background, respectful guy — but something feels off.
Most conversations either die after 2-3 days, or the other person is clearly not looking for anything serious. A lot of girls I’ve spoken to seem emotionally unavailable, or they’re juggling multiple people, or they suddenly disappear after showing interest. On the other hand, I’ve also heard from female friends that guys are doing the exact same thing.
I’m not trying to blame anyone. I just genuinely want to understand — is this how dating is for everyone right now in India, or am I doing something wrong?
Ladies, I’m especially curious about your experiences:
What are you actually looking for when you match with someone?
What makes you lose interest quickly?
What do most guys get wrong when they approach you?
Have you also felt that genuine connections are becoming rare?
I’m not looking for sympathy or “just be yourself” answers. I want real, honest opinions so I can understand the other side better.
Thanks in advance to anyone who replies. Really appreciate it.
#local
Hi everyone,
I’m 25 and have been actively trying to date seriously for the past couple of years (mostly through apps + a few mutual friends). On paper everything looks fine — decent job, good family background, respectful guy — but something feels off.
Most conversations either die after 2-3 days, or the other person is clearly not looking for anything serious. A lot of girls I’ve spoken to seem emotionally unavailable, or they’re juggling multiple people, or they suddenly disappear after showing interest. On the other hand, I’ve also heard from female friends that guys are doing the exact same thing.
I’m not trying to blame anyone. I just genuinely want to understand — is this how dating is for everyone right now in India, or am I doing something wrong?
Ladies, I’m especially curious about your experiences:
What are you actually looking for when you match with someone?
What makes you lose interest quickly?
What do most guys get wrong when they approach you?
Have you also felt that genuine connections are becoming rare?
I’m not looking for sympathy or “just be yourself” answers. I want real, honest opinions so I can understand the other side better.
Thanks in advance to anyone who replies. Really appreciate it.
#local
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