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How are you seeing that person?
Our perceptions of people are constructed through our own judgments, significantly conditioning how we experience and see them. In relationships, we often face highs and lows, and our tendency to remain in a catabolic energy state—marked by negative emotions and destructive thinking—can lead us to accumulate the difficult moments. These moments, like bricks, stack up in our minds, forming a formidable wall of perception around the person. Over time, this judgmental wall isolates us from them, altering how we once saw them.
Initially, relationships are fueled by positive energies such as excitement, compassion, forgiveness, love, and joy. These energies inspire us to do almost anything to nurture happiness in our loved ones. However, as time passes and we encounter mistakes, fights, disagreements, disappointments, and unmet expectations, the accumulation of these negative experiences overshadows the positive ones. Our perception becomes clouded by our ego and judgments, preventing us from seeing the person as we once did.
This wall of negative perception hinders our ability to give, love, and invest in the relationship. Instead of building a connection, we end up building a barrier. To heal and restore the relationship, we must identify this wall—an embodiment of our egotistical judgments. Recognizing that this barrier exists solely within us is crucial. Only by acknowledging and addressing our internal biases can we begin to dismantle this wall.
Understanding that the wall is self-constructed empowers us to tear it down. By consciously choosing to shift our energy and perceptions back to those of excitement, compassion, and love, we can rebuild our relationships. This internal transformation allows us to see our loved ones anew, fostering a more profound and enduring connection.
Life is about all experiences. But if we just hold onto the hard times, we lose the ability to see the best in people and how we truly feel for them.
-Coach Mike
EDIT your GOALS
Every
Day
Internal
Thoughts
Guarantees
Our
Absolute
Life
Situations
#perception #barriers #past #judgement #ego
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Bruno Alves
Our perceptions of people are constructed through our own judgments, significantly conditioning how we experience and see them. In relationships, we often face highs and lows, and our tendency to remain in a catabolic energy state—marked by negative emotions and destructive thinking—can lead us to accumulate the difficult moments. These moments, like bricks, stack up in our minds, forming a formidable wall of perception around the person. Over time, this judgmental wall isolates us from them, altering how we once saw them.
Initially, relationships are fueled by positive energies such as excitement, compassion, forgiveness, love, and joy. These energies inspire us to do almost anything to nurture happiness in our loved ones. However, as time passes and we encounter mistakes, fights, disagreements, disappointments, and unmet expectations, the accumulation of these negative experiences overshadows the positive ones. Our perception becomes clouded by our ego and judgments, preventing us from seeing the person as we once did.
This wall of negative perception hinders our ability to give, love, and invest in the relationship. Instead of building a connection, we end up building a barrier. To heal and restore the relationship, we must identify this wall—an embodiment of our egotistical judgments. Recognizing that this barrier exists solely within us is crucial. Only by acknowledging and addressing our internal biases can we begin to dismantle this wall.
Understanding that the wall is self-constructed empowers us to tear it down. By consciously choosing to shift our energy and perceptions back to those of excitement, compassion, and love, we can rebuild our relationships. This internal transformation allows us to see our loved ones anew, fostering a more profound and enduring connection.
Life is about all experiences. But if we just hold onto the hard times, we lose the ability to see the best in people and how we truly feel for them.
-Coach Mike
EDIT your GOALS
Every
Day
Internal
Thoughts
Guarantees
Our
Absolute
Life
Situations
#perception #barriers #past #judgement #ego
Background Picture by
Bruno Alves
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