how do you subtly let a guy know that you're dtf over text? without being too forward in case it isn't reciprocated. been talking to this guy over text who is currently travelling, but lives in my city. im not looking for anything, and i get the vibe that neither is he. i woke up feeling really bored and horny and i want to try testing the waters to see if the conversation could go in a spicier direction. any advice?