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Is complimenting strangers weird?
There was this girl that looked absolutely dazzling and had such an amazing style that I had to stop myself from complimenting her in fear of looking weird. But this is not a one time thing every time I'm out I see lots of ppl who make me wanna walk up to them and tell them that they look amazing or whatever. I'm not flir ting or anything and I'm also a girl but I fear it might be weird or creepy. Should I keep to myself? Or could it make some ppl happy?
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There was this girl that looked absolutely dazzling and had such an amazing style that I had to stop myself from complimenting her in fear of looking weird. But this is not a one time thing every time I'm out I see lots of ppl who make me wanna walk up to them and tell them that they look amazing or whatever. I'm not flir ting or anything and I'm also a girl but I fear it might be weird or creepy. Should I keep to myself? Or could it make some ppl happy?
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Invited to first college party
Hey guys I’m a sophomore in college and I finally got invited to my first college party. I was kind of anti social in my freshman year so I never got invited to anything. But this year I am trying to be more social and just reached out to my classmate asking him about any events happening he said yeah there’s a college party you should come.
I’m excited because this is like my first opportunity to meet new people on campus and I don’t want to ruin it. Especially because I’ve walked on campus trying to meet different people like friends and girls and it’s been like rough. Like I’ll approach people and it’s like I’m bothering them kinda.
I still kinda have social anxiety so I’m nervous and I don’t know anyone there. I’m concerned I’ll be awkward. I don’t even know what to wear I don’t want to overdress or underdress.
I guess my questions are how do I fit in, what do I wear, how do I approach people at the party and are they going to be welcoming to me as a stranger?
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Hey guys I’m a sophomore in college and I finally got invited to my first college party. I was kind of anti social in my freshman year so I never got invited to anything. But this year I am trying to be more social and just reached out to my classmate asking him about any events happening he said yeah there’s a college party you should come.
I’m excited because this is like my first opportunity to meet new people on campus and I don’t want to ruin it. Especially because I’ve walked on campus trying to meet different people like friends and girls and it’s been like rough. Like I’ll approach people and it’s like I’m bothering them kinda.
I still kinda have social anxiety so I’m nervous and I don’t know anyone there. I’m concerned I’ll be awkward. I don’t even know what to wear I don’t want to overdress or underdress.
I guess my questions are how do I fit in, what do I wear, how do I approach people at the party and are they going to be welcoming to me as a stranger?
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Relationship too centered around sex
Last week, I asked the guy I've been seeing if he wanted to go have a drink somewhere and watch Thursday night football. He was down and then texted that we could leave the bar around 9 and go drive somewhere to have sex in his truck. I didn't respond right away so he texted back a little later that he was kidding and he is excited to just see me and watch the game together. Then as we're leaving, he asks me to come to his truck for a minute. We kiss a little and then ask if we can do more. I told him not tonight. It feels like every time we make plans to do some activity outside of hanging out at one of our places, he always throws us having sex somewhere in there. I'm getting to the point where I don't even want to start asking to go out and do stuff because it feels like he still expects sex. Now, don't get me wrong, I enjoy having sex as well, but I don't need it to be my whole life or relationship. I know I need to have a talk with him about it, but I just needed somewhere to vent to first.
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Last week, I asked the guy I've been seeing if he wanted to go have a drink somewhere and watch Thursday night football. He was down and then texted that we could leave the bar around 9 and go drive somewhere to have sex in his truck. I didn't respond right away so he texted back a little later that he was kidding and he is excited to just see me and watch the game together. Then as we're leaving, he asks me to come to his truck for a minute. We kiss a little and then ask if we can do more. I told him not tonight. It feels like every time we make plans to do some activity outside of hanging out at one of our places, he always throws us having sex somewhere in there. I'm getting to the point where I don't even want to start asking to go out and do stuff because it feels like he still expects sex. Now, don't get me wrong, I enjoy having sex as well, but I don't need it to be my whole life or relationship. I know I need to have a talk with him about it, but I just needed somewhere to vent to first.
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