It was always so hard for me to understand this question.
With over seven billion people on this planet, how does one live a life lonely?
Well, it turns out to be quite simple. We choose it. We choose to be on our own. We choose to be closed off. We choose to stay away and take on everything alone.
We choose to be lonely.
And let the disagreements begin.
Those that are lonely want to disagree because then the responsibility doesn’t fall on them. When it actually does.
But unfortunately when we live in victimhood and believe we are the victim, nothing seems to be our choice or our responsibility.
When we acknowledge the choices we make of trying to do everything on our own and separating ourselves from others, only then will we see that it is a choice. When we integrate with others we build networks. We start to pool knowledge together and more is accomplished. This is how good accomplishments become great. By the shared responsibility and information.
We have to be willing to put ourselves out there. To discover new ideas and people. To build a network to enhance our capabilities too.
Loneliness is a choice. A choice many make unconsciously.
Become conscious. Be more mindful and present. Be courageous and willing to be uncomfortable in a new and unfamiliar situation to meet new people. To discover new information and abundance. To grow into the potential you are capable of. Stop trying to be successful by yourself. Allow yourself to network into bigger crowds. To see and take in new ideas and information. To grow with each new interaction.
Become more integrated into this world. Not just a lonely part of it. Always your choice when you are conscious of the decisions you make.
-Coach Mike
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