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What are you listening to?
One of the most underrated skills in life is letting people be who they are.
Let them mispronounce a word. Let them get excited about a show you do not care about. Let them talk too much about something you do not understand. You do not have to fully get it to be kind.
Everyone has something that lights them up. And when you let people shine, you become the kind of person they feel safe around.
But too many people are addicted to correcting. A word they said wrong. A decision they made. A path they chose. Even when you knew what they meant. Even when it does not affect your life at all.
Correcting has become a way to prove superiority. But it is not wisdom. It is insecurity disguised as intelligence. And it destroys connection.
Because when you are hunting for mistakes, you are not listening. You are not learning. You are not understanding. You are just waiting to speak so you can fix them.
Stop.
Listen deeper. Be curious. Hear the meaning behind the words, not the imperfections in the words. People do not need you to be their judge. They need you to be someone they can trust.
If you want better relationships, start today by choosing understanding over correction. That is real strength.
If this message spoke to you or something within it resonated, I invite you to check out my other ideas in my books sold on Amazon. They have already helped thousands worldwide.
– Coach Mike
EDIT Your GOALS
Every
Day
Internal
Thoughts
Guarantee
Our
Absolute
Life
Situations
#place #safe #real #listen #hear
Background Photo Credit:
Aaron Blanco Tejedor
One of the most underrated skills in life is letting people be who they are.
Let them mispronounce a word. Let them get excited about a show you do not care about. Let them talk too much about something you do not understand. You do not have to fully get it to be kind.
Everyone has something that lights them up. And when you let people shine, you become the kind of person they feel safe around.
But too many people are addicted to correcting. A word they said wrong. A decision they made. A path they chose. Even when you knew what they meant. Even when it does not affect your life at all.
Correcting has become a way to prove superiority. But it is not wisdom. It is insecurity disguised as intelligence. And it destroys connection.
Because when you are hunting for mistakes, you are not listening. You are not learning. You are not understanding. You are just waiting to speak so you can fix them.
Stop.
Listen deeper. Be curious. Hear the meaning behind the words, not the imperfections in the words. People do not need you to be their judge. They need you to be someone they can trust.
If you want better relationships, start today by choosing understanding over correction. That is real strength.
If this message spoke to you or something within it resonated, I invite you to check out my other ideas in my books sold on Amazon. They have already helped thousands worldwide.
– Coach Mike
EDIT Your GOALS
Every
Day
Internal
Thoughts
Guarantee
Our
Absolute
Life
Situations
#place #safe #real #listen #hear
Background Photo Credit:
Aaron Blanco Tejedor
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my daughter got comfortable in my cousin's house fast. Perhaps it was because we were there too and she knew she was #safe
#life #tangled #philippines
#life #tangled #philippines
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