My five years old just told be he was so scared of his…
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My five years old just told be he was so scared of his dad, he didn't want to come home
I get my son to school and i get him from school nearly everyday
My son is having trouble in class, because he can talk two language instead of one, and he has one friend that doesn't talk the same language of his teacher, so my son is the unofficial translator for his friend. But because of this, they talk a lot, and they fight a lot too.
But my son is louder than his friend and he's the one the teacher hears the most and he often get lectured (and not his friends). When my son gets lectured, he sees it as been unfair and he lashes out to his teacher, and gets grounded for it.
Then we get email from his teacher, both to me and his dad (my partner), who then get all mad back home at my son, because he's disappointed that my five years old doesn't keep his words about not lashing out at his friends or the teachers... Dad always compares our son to his own behavior from when he was a child, saying that he wasn't like this, and he was always kind, and never got grounded and bla bla bla
But today, i got my son from school, and my son didn't want to come with me. He had to be coaxed out by a teacher to come to be, and he said ''i am afraid of dad and i don't want to go home''. And it shattered me.
My partner (his dad) is not violent physically. But he gets loud, and he gets personal (he always get pissed off when our son tell him ''i dont like you dad'' and other shenanigans and angry kid rants). And its been a while since i'm struggling with the idea of leaving him.
But now that my son is afraid to, and said so publicly...i'm at a lost...
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I get my son to school and i get him from school nearly everyday
My son is having trouble in class, because he can talk two language instead of one, and he has one friend that doesn't talk the same language of his teacher, so my son is the unofficial translator for his friend. But because of this, they talk a lot, and they fight a lot too.
But my son is louder than his friend and he's the one the teacher hears the most and he often get lectured (and not his friends). When my son gets lectured, he sees it as been unfair and he lashes out to his teacher, and gets grounded for it.
Then we get email from his teacher, both to me and his dad (my partner), who then get all mad back home at my son, because he's disappointed that my five years old doesn't keep his words about not lashing out at his friends or the teachers... Dad always compares our son to his own behavior from when he was a child, saying that he wasn't like this, and he was always kind, and never got grounded and bla bla bla
But today, i got my son from school, and my son didn't want to come with me. He had to be coaxed out by a teacher to come to be, and he said ''i am afraid of dad and i don't want to go home''. And it shattered me.
My partner (his dad) is not violent physically. But he gets loud, and he gets personal (he always get pissed off when our son tell him ''i dont like you dad'' and other shenanigans and angry kid rants). And its been a while since i'm struggling with the idea of leaving him.
But now that my son is afraid to, and said so publicly...i'm at a lost...
#relationships
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