I always ask the woman I'm having sex with what's the plan she gets pregnant.
So something i learned to do is if I'm having sex on a regular basis with a woman, I ask her what happens if she gets pregnant.
Now, this doesn't apply to me because I don't sleep with women unless we are exclusive, but I imagine if y'all aren't exclusive, then it's important to ask if she's willing to take a pregnancy test if she's sleeping with others.
Anyways, in my own cases, I ask her and we have a convo. I let her know I'd like to be involved if she keeps the pregnancy, but I am pro choice and would support her if she decides to have an abortion.
This is also a great opportunity to talk about your standings when it comes to abortion, something I believe should be discussed eventually.
So, if you're regularly having sex with someone, it's very important to talk about potential pregnancies, as uncomfortable as that sounds. #relationships source