Recently ive made a decent amount of friends and when we talk, they always mention that they met this person and that person was rude to them, or treated them rudely or harshly. Or someone was passive aggressive or just generally negative. "Oh guess who i saw and you know what she told me..." is basically how it goes. Some of them even had friends betray them and backstab them ect.
Ive been to many social gatherings but I don't ever think I felt excluded, or had someone be rude to me or someone act like they don't know me or don't want to be around me? Maybe I have an over positive perception of everyone. Or maybe Im just so self centered that if it did happen to me I didnt notice because in too busy obsessing over myself?
I wonder? Im greatful for this ofcourse Alhamdulillah. But I was just wondering, is it normal for people to be rude or mean??
And its funny, because they sometimes mention girls i know whom I only ever had normal or positive experiences with and they're like "shes not dismissive to you" and im just so confused. Im so baffled because I havent seen that side of p #relationships