How do we feel about having exclusively “shallow…
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How do we feel about having exclusively “shallow” friendships?
I’m talking about friendships that revolve around meeting at the gym/hobby, at work, etc.
I find myself having multiple friendships like this. Close enough to go do hobby x with each other, but we don’t really talk about our personal lives.
Same thing with work. Someone may want to go grab a drink after but not really wanting to connect at a deeper level?
One example is that I meet with a guy at the gym 3x a week. We workout together, have a similar routine, and we get along fine. But then we go our separate ways and our conversation doesn’t go beyond the text message “we are meeting at the gym tonight right?”
On one hand I feel like I should be grateful that I have many shallower friendship, but on the other hand shouldn’t I have deeper friendships than this? I have mixed feelings
#relationships
I’m talking about friendships that revolve around meeting at the gym/hobby, at work, etc.
I find myself having multiple friendships like this. Close enough to go do hobby x with each other, but we don’t really talk about our personal lives.
Same thing with work. Someone may want to go grab a drink after but not really wanting to connect at a deeper level?
One example is that I meet with a guy at the gym 3x a week. We workout together, have a similar routine, and we get along fine. But then we go our separate ways and our conversation doesn’t go beyond the text message “we are meeting at the gym tonight right?”
On one hand I feel like I should be grateful that I have many shallower friendship, but on the other hand shouldn’t I have deeper friendships than this? I have mixed feelings
#relationships
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