If someone proposes to you in public and you don’t want to…
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If someone proposes to you in public and you don’t want to marry them, you should say yes in the moment and sort it out privately later
I saw a video of a guy proposing at a baseball game and getting turned down. Getting rejected like that in front of a crowd (then potentially millions once it spreads online) is devastatingly brutal.
If you already know your answer is no, it’s kinder to say yes in the moment and have a heart-to-heart later in private. You avoid putting someone on the spot and turning a painful situation into a public spectacle, and causing lasting trauma/ridicule.
Update: It seems my opinion is unpopular. I understood the assignment, unlike 99% of the other posts here 😎
Update: Y’all have said the same exact thing literally 500 times. I propose you be more creative with your rebuttals.
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I saw a video of a guy proposing at a baseball game and getting turned down. Getting rejected like that in front of a crowd (then potentially millions once it spreads online) is devastatingly brutal.
If you already know your answer is no, it’s kinder to say yes in the moment and have a heart-to-heart later in private. You avoid putting someone on the spot and turning a painful situation into a public spectacle, and causing lasting trauma/ridicule.
Update: It seems my opinion is unpopular. I understood the assignment, unlike 99% of the other posts here 😎
Update: Y’all have said the same exact thing literally 500 times. I propose you be more creative with your rebuttals.
#conversation
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