How do you stop being a loser? How do I stop being a loser…
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How do you stop being a loser?
How do I stop being a loser as a guy in my late 20's?
I (28m) still live with my parents, I'm unemployed and have no formal education since leaving school at 16. I fall asleep at around 4am and don't wake up until 4 or 5pm.
I've never bothered learning how to drive. Every time I open job websites, I scroll though maybe one or two pages, don't apply for any and don't open them again for another few weeks.
I used to be incredibly social, but haven't seen my friends in person in a very long time. Ironically, I saw my friends more while working full time.
I vented my frustration to ChatGPT, and no matter what I type, the result is that it thinks I'm depressed.
I've spoken to a therapist in the past aswell as a doctor, and they both believed that giving me anxiety and depression medication was best. However, I haven't spoken to either in a few years and of course have stopped taking the medication.
I've had no hope for the future since my late teens, it just simply never existed.
These days, all I do is sleep until whenever and play video games, only taking a break to eat and shower.
On paper, getting my life back on track on seems simple, but what's the point when you don't even want to continue living your life? Not in a suicidal way, more like a "I can't be arsed" way.
Overall, I'm incredibly lazy and it's quite clear that I'm also very stubborn to change.
#inspiration
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How do I stop being a loser as a guy in my late 20's?
I (28m) still live with my parents, I'm unemployed and have no formal education since leaving school at 16. I fall asleep at around 4am and don't wake up until 4 or 5pm.
I've never bothered learning how to drive. Every time I open job websites, I scroll though maybe one or two pages, don't apply for any and don't open them again for another few weeks.
I used to be incredibly social, but haven't seen my friends in person in a very long time. Ironically, I saw my friends more while working full time.
I vented my frustration to ChatGPT, and no matter what I type, the result is that it thinks I'm depressed.
I've spoken to a therapist in the past aswell as a doctor, and they both believed that giving me anxiety and depression medication was best. However, I haven't spoken to either in a few years and of course have stopped taking the medication.
I've had no hope for the future since my late teens, it just simply never existed.
These days, all I do is sleep until whenever and play video games, only taking a break to eat and shower.
On paper, getting my life back on track on seems simple, but what's the point when you don't even want to continue living your life? Not in a suicidal way, more like a "I can't be arsed" way.
Overall, I'm incredibly lazy and it's quite clear that I'm also very stubborn to change.
#inspiration
source
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