I (25F) learned that talking isn’t for me. Im constantly misunderstood, people talk to me like im stupid, and no matter what I say, no one is interested in me or what I have to say. I’ve elected to just stop talking & cut people off. My life is more peaceful that way, & I don’t give Pelé the opportunity to misunderstand me. I like it. Not to mention small talk with a bunch of strangers is unfulfilling.
However, if I keep to myself and mind my business, people STILL misunderstand me & just say I’m shy & insecure. Now, I get people prying asking if I’m ok when I’m just sitting there doing nothing.
So how do I keep this from happening? How can I get people to leave me alone without CONSTANTLY questioning where I am mentally?? #relationships source