I struggle at talking in group settings A lot of the…
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I struggle at talking in group settings
A lot of the people I hang out with are mostly 10-15 years older than me. One of my friends I’ve camped and rode dirt bikes with before invited me to come ride and camp with a large group of people \~15.
Him and his wife are good people who I like a lot. When I arrived there were a few other people that I’ve seen before but don’t know very well. Everybody else I knew nothing about. Again from what I gathered over the weekend everybody there was 30-55 years old. I’m 25
Sitting around the campfire at the end of the day I found it hard to get involved in the conversation. There would also be times that there were 2-3 separate conversations going on and I still didn’t know how to join one of them. I’m always worried if I start in the conversation I’ll be interrupting someone as soon as I start talking. My friend was pretty good at asking me questions about my life at times. It made me feel somewhat included. When it comes to storytelling/ Bsing I just find it really hard to include myself I only can say “that’s crazy” so many times.
What can i do to better include myself in group conversations?
#relationships
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A lot of the people I hang out with are mostly 10-15 years older than me. One of my friends I’ve camped and rode dirt bikes with before invited me to come ride and camp with a large group of people \~15.
Him and his wife are good people who I like a lot. When I arrived there were a few other people that I’ve seen before but don’t know very well. Everybody else I knew nothing about. Again from what I gathered over the weekend everybody there was 30-55 years old. I’m 25
Sitting around the campfire at the end of the day I found it hard to get involved in the conversation. There would also be times that there were 2-3 separate conversations going on and I still didn’t know how to join one of them. I’m always worried if I start in the conversation I’ll be interrupting someone as soon as I start talking. My friend was pretty good at asking me questions about my life at times. It made me feel somewhat included. When it comes to storytelling/ Bsing I just find it really hard to include myself I only can say “that’s crazy” so many times.
What can i do to better include myself in group conversations?
#relationships
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