I'm facing trouble making friends, help me please. So, I…
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I'm facing trouble making friends, help me please.
So, I didn't suffer with communication before, I was usually the initiative one who watches, learns the opposite person's interests, and talks with them about it while matching their energy. And, I'd make friends, we'd talk for a very good while and have very nice talks, but, after a while the opposite person just, stops talking to me. I usually ask about what happened, they say it's nothing, so I just don't argue and leave them to be. I still do not understand why would any of them just, stop talking, and ignore me straight up, while I'm sure I'm always gentle with everyone and try to make them all feel the most comfortable around me.
Now, I became someone who is calm, never initiates, and wist for people to come. And even after making a very few number of friends, it was more that they were making fun of me rather than actual friendship. I found myself being left behind, so I just, stopped interacting with any of them.
As about online friendships, they usually turn out to be 40 y.o men who send me inappropriate shit. And girls chat with me for a day or two then ignore me.
I tried being myself, I tried being a nice person, I tried to be nonchalant, I tried to be bubbly, serious, everything, nothing worked.
What do you suggest? If I keep on this life, the loneliness would actually end up killing me. I feel I'm still young, while people my age are having fun out there, with their friends, I'm stuck here envying them.
I'm 18F btw, please help me out.
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So, I didn't suffer with communication before, I was usually the initiative one who watches, learns the opposite person's interests, and talks with them about it while matching their energy. And, I'd make friends, we'd talk for a very good while and have very nice talks, but, after a while the opposite person just, stops talking to me. I usually ask about what happened, they say it's nothing, so I just don't argue and leave them to be. I still do not understand why would any of them just, stop talking, and ignore me straight up, while I'm sure I'm always gentle with everyone and try to make them all feel the most comfortable around me.
Now, I became someone who is calm, never initiates, and wist for people to come. And even after making a very few number of friends, it was more that they were making fun of me rather than actual friendship. I found myself being left behind, so I just, stopped interacting with any of them.
As about online friendships, they usually turn out to be 40 y.o men who send me inappropriate shit. And girls chat with me for a day or two then ignore me.
I tried being myself, I tried being a nice person, I tried to be nonchalant, I tried to be bubbly, serious, everything, nothing worked.
What do you suggest? If I keep on this life, the loneliness would actually end up killing me. I feel I'm still young, while people my age are having fun out there, with their friends, I'm stuck here envying them.
I'm 18F btw, please help me out.
#relationships
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