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I'm stuck in the middle of two friends fighting
I'm neurodivergent and my only two friends are fighting and I'm stuck in the middle
I have diagnosed ASD and childhood ADHD, people have always been extremely difficult for me. I have two kind of close friends I've known since highschool, they are best friends and grew up together. We are in our late 20s now. Without airing all their laundry out, they are no longer talking because one slept with the others x last year and it just came up recently. This dude has been sleeping around a lot over the last year or so and kind of using women for that, and the other has told me he's disappointed in him for doing that. Now it turns out he committed an admittedly bad sin. I'm closer to the guy who hasn't been sleeping around, but they both have been in my own life since middle school and I don't know what to do. I've only been talking to the one so far who was sleeping around and I just don't know what to say/do. I'd have to say if it came to it, my loyalty is with the other friend, the one who's x got slept with. That x really fucked him up and he never tried again since her almost 6 years ago now. She called the cops on him and it was this whole big thing. I just don't know how to handle this situation. I told him (guy who slept around) I'm fine being friends with both but keeping those friendships separate, but that was before he told me the reason why they were fighting. I don't know if this behavior is something I should accept as people have a right to do whatever it is in their personal life, but this kinda crosses a line. I'm sorry for rambling, this is just a difficult spot to be in.
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I'm neurodivergent and my only two friends are fighting and I'm stuck in the middle
I have diagnosed ASD and childhood ADHD, people have always been extremely difficult for me. I have two kind of close friends I've known since highschool, they are best friends and grew up together. We are in our late 20s now. Without airing all their laundry out, they are no longer talking because one slept with the others x last year and it just came up recently. This dude has been sleeping around a lot over the last year or so and kind of using women for that, and the other has told me he's disappointed in him for doing that. Now it turns out he committed an admittedly bad sin. I'm closer to the guy who hasn't been sleeping around, but they both have been in my own life since middle school and I don't know what to do. I've only been talking to the one so far who was sleeping around and I just don't know what to say/do. I'd have to say if it came to it, my loyalty is with the other friend, the one who's x got slept with. That x really fucked him up and he never tried again since her almost 6 years ago now. She called the cops on him and it was this whole big thing. I just don't know how to handle this situation. I told him (guy who slept around) I'm fine being friends with both but keeping those friendships separate, but that was before he told me the reason why they were fighting. I don't know if this behavior is something I should accept as people have a right to do whatever it is in their personal life, but this kinda crosses a line. I'm sorry for rambling, this is just a difficult spot to be in.
#relationships
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