Will my nervous system naturally adjust to a healthier…
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Will my nervous system naturally adjust to a healthier relationship?
I’ve noticed with this recent guy I’ve been dating, for about 3 months, I worry he isn’t into me enough.
The thing is he seems to show all signs that he is into me, he initiates plans, we actually go on dates most of the time, he remembers things about me, doesn’t rush intimacy, I met his friends (he even said we were a couple to his friends), he sends me texts everyday and shares cute photo updates of his day a decent amount of times a week. no official label though, but we both said we weren’t seeing other people.
I can’t help but still wonder how into me he is though…. My last relationship was very love bomb-y, constantttt compliments, kinda over the top everything including dates, plans, words of adoration especially early on. I mean this dude even said he thought he was falling in love after the third date, also saying things like “I’ve never felt a connection like this with anyone before” and future faking… so definitely a rollercoaster of emotions with that, especially since one day he just seemed to change. Also had an annoying situationship like that a few months after him that followed the same kinda intense feeling, with emotional ups and downs.
I’m wondering if maybe my body has been so used to those high highs and low lows that a nice consistent pace just feels off… don’t get me wrong, I do really like him and I do feel pretty secure in this relationship other than those thoughts of not knowing how he feels. This relationship so far feels steady, and I feel like I have a good balance of work/self/him instead of constantly worrying, like I have with past relationships. This guy isn’t super complimentary towards my looks but compliments things I’ve done like smaller accomplishments (being vague) but the physical affection is there so he must be attracted to me after this many months (i hope)
Will my nervous system get used to this overtime?
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I’ve noticed with this recent guy I’ve been dating, for about 3 months, I worry he isn’t into me enough.
The thing is he seems to show all signs that he is into me, he initiates plans, we actually go on dates most of the time, he remembers things about me, doesn’t rush intimacy, I met his friends (he even said we were a couple to his friends), he sends me texts everyday and shares cute photo updates of his day a decent amount of times a week. no official label though, but we both said we weren’t seeing other people.
I can’t help but still wonder how into me he is though…. My last relationship was very love bomb-y, constantttt compliments, kinda over the top everything including dates, plans, words of adoration especially early on. I mean this dude even said he thought he was falling in love after the third date, also saying things like “I’ve never felt a connection like this with anyone before” and future faking… so definitely a rollercoaster of emotions with that, especially since one day he just seemed to change. Also had an annoying situationship like that a few months after him that followed the same kinda intense feeling, with emotional ups and downs.
I’m wondering if maybe my body has been so used to those high highs and low lows that a nice consistent pace just feels off… don’t get me wrong, I do really like him and I do feel pretty secure in this relationship other than those thoughts of not knowing how he feels. This relationship so far feels steady, and I feel like I have a good balance of work/self/him instead of constantly worrying, like I have with past relationships. This guy isn’t super complimentary towards my looks but compliments things I’ve done like smaller accomplishments (being vague) but the physical affection is there so he must be attracted to me after this many months (i hope)
Will my nervous system get used to this overtime?
#relationships
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