Has anybody completely done a 180 and become the person…
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Has anybody completely done a 180 and become the person you imagine you want to be?
Forgive me if this sounds crazy but it makes sense to me.
In our minds there is an ideal version of ourselves. I’m curious if anyone out there, instead of relying on tips and tricks or exposure therapy or whatever, just completely did a 180 and started acting like this ideal version.
I mean what is stopping someone from doing this? It might be a little weird if you’ve been quiet and suddenly turn into suave mcgee. But at this point I really can’t think of any better option for myself than to just DO IT.
Just walk up and say something, I think the vision and upholding to what it takes to be your ideal self is more important than the micro interactions along the way.
What I mean by this is if you have a goal of being the best that you can be at speaking to people you’re going to make as many attempts at possible to do so. Any mistake you make is going to be treated like a learning experience and the belief in yourself is so great that just the act of attempting something new is progress as well as confirmation of your ideal self.
Think the words “I am a social person” instead of “how can I be more social.” One implies you aren’t and need help. The other implies you are, instills a positive belief into your mind, and will allow you to push through setbacks much easier.
Curious if anyone has the same thoughts on this
#relationships
Forgive me if this sounds crazy but it makes sense to me.
In our minds there is an ideal version of ourselves. I’m curious if anyone out there, instead of relying on tips and tricks or exposure therapy or whatever, just completely did a 180 and started acting like this ideal version.
I mean what is stopping someone from doing this? It might be a little weird if you’ve been quiet and suddenly turn into suave mcgee. But at this point I really can’t think of any better option for myself than to just DO IT.
Just walk up and say something, I think the vision and upholding to what it takes to be your ideal self is more important than the micro interactions along the way.
What I mean by this is if you have a goal of being the best that you can be at speaking to people you’re going to make as many attempts at possible to do so. Any mistake you make is going to be treated like a learning experience and the belief in yourself is so great that just the act of attempting something new is progress as well as confirmation of your ideal self.
Think the words “I am a social person” instead of “how can I be more social.” One implies you aren’t and need help. The other implies you are, instills a positive belief into your mind, and will allow you to push through setbacks much easier.
Curious if anyone has the same thoughts on this
#relationships
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