From all over me to “you’re not the right person” hi…
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From all over me to “you’re not the right person”
hi everyone! I’m wondering if someone else has had a similar experience on the dating apps.
I met this guy about 2 weeks ago and we went on a date. Went well and he was blowing up my phone afterwards and we made plans for this Saturday night. From after the first date, hes telling me he wants to be my man and wants me to be his gf—which to me was strange cause we only met one time and barely knew each other. Hes also calling me nicknames, asking me what we’re gonna do this summer, etc. which I also found strange cause we …just met! He told me he was looking for something serious and I said we could see where it went. But I was a little weary and distrusting of all this affection so soon, so I challenged him on it sometimes (“really you want to be my bf? But we only just met”)
Seemed like a good dude with a fairly stable and calm life. Seemed to be open to everything I said and never mentioned anything bothering him. On Monday, I was having a terrible work day and was a little distant with him explaining I was having a long day at work and felt tired.
On Tuesday, I wake up to a text from him saying how amazing I was but that he had to cancel our date on Saturday because I wasn’t the right person for him at this stage of his life.
???? How does someone go from “I wanna be your bf” to “idk if you’re the right person” (this is why I had my guard up lol). Is this common? Why would someone do this?
#relationships
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hi everyone! I’m wondering if someone else has had a similar experience on the dating apps.
I met this guy about 2 weeks ago and we went on a date. Went well and he was blowing up my phone afterwards and we made plans for this Saturday night. From after the first date, hes telling me he wants to be my man and wants me to be his gf—which to me was strange cause we only met one time and barely knew each other. Hes also calling me nicknames, asking me what we’re gonna do this summer, etc. which I also found strange cause we …just met! He told me he was looking for something serious and I said we could see where it went. But I was a little weary and distrusting of all this affection so soon, so I challenged him on it sometimes (“really you want to be my bf? But we only just met”)
Seemed like a good dude with a fairly stable and calm life. Seemed to be open to everything I said and never mentioned anything bothering him. On Monday, I was having a terrible work day and was a little distant with him explaining I was having a long day at work and felt tired.
On Tuesday, I wake up to a text from him saying how amazing I was but that he had to cancel our date on Saturday because I wasn’t the right person for him at this stage of his life.
???? How does someone go from “I wanna be your bf” to “idk if you’re the right person” (this is why I had my guard up lol). Is this common? Why would someone do this?
#relationships
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