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Does your Peace depend on life going as planned?
For much of our lives, we are taught to believe peace will come when everything finally falls into place.
When the relationship works. When the finances improve. When the plan succeeds. When people behave the way we expected. When life becomes predictable.
But that is not peace.
That is the expectation of control.
And control is an illusion.
The more tightly you grip life trying to make everything happen according to your expectations, the more frustrated you become when reality reminds you that life was never yours to control.
I believe this is where we misunderstand our true power.
Our power is not found in controlling what happens around us. It is found in how we respond to what happens around us. We may not control the circumstances, other people, or tomorrow, but we can influence what comes next through our thoughts, energy, choices, and actions.
That is where growth happens.
We desire certainty because it feels safe, yet some of our greatest growth happens inside uncertainty. It forces us to become aware, adapt, learn, and discover what we are actually capable of.
So when uncertainty shows up today, resist the urge to tighten your grip.
Become present.
Ask yourself what you can influence right now, then put your energy there.
Peace is not finally getting life to cooperate with you.
Peace is learning how to remain steady when it does not.
If this message spoke to you or something within it resonated, I invite you to check out my other ideas in my books sold on Amazon. They have already helped thousands worldwide.
– Coach Mike
EDIT Your GOALS
Every
Day
Internal
Thoughts
Guarantee
Our
Absolute
Life
Situations
#peace #illusion #control #power #influence
Background Photo Credit:
Katie Moum
For much of our lives, we are taught to believe peace will come when everything finally falls into place.
When the relationship works. When the finances improve. When the plan succeeds. When people behave the way we expected. When life becomes predictable.
But that is not peace.
That is the expectation of control.
And control is an illusion.
The more tightly you grip life trying to make everything happen according to your expectations, the more frustrated you become when reality reminds you that life was never yours to control.
I believe this is where we misunderstand our true power.
Our power is not found in controlling what happens around us. It is found in how we respond to what happens around us. We may not control the circumstances, other people, or tomorrow, but we can influence what comes next through our thoughts, energy, choices, and actions.
That is where growth happens.
We desire certainty because it feels safe, yet some of our greatest growth happens inside uncertainty. It forces us to become aware, adapt, learn, and discover what we are actually capable of.
So when uncertainty shows up today, resist the urge to tighten your grip.
Become present.
Ask yourself what you can influence right now, then put your energy there.
Peace is not finally getting life to cooperate with you.
Peace is learning how to remain steady when it does not.
If this message spoke to you or something within it resonated, I invite you to check out my other ideas in my books sold on Amazon. They have already helped thousands worldwide.
– Coach Mike
EDIT Your GOALS
Every
Day
Internal
Thoughts
Guarantee
Our
Absolute
Life
Situations
#peace #illusion #control #power #influence
Background Photo Credit:
Katie Moum
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