Rude or not? When meeting someone for the first time/ a…
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Rude or not?
When meeting someone for the first time/ a mutual is it considered rude to not ask reciprocal questions?
I find myself bothered when meeting new people as I try and ask basic questions to try and get to know them and find ways to connect (work, where/if they went to college/ things they enjoy doing/travel). At a certain point is it considered rude if they don’t ask any reciprocal questions about me? It’s not that I want to talk about myself per se, but it rubs me the wrong way after a whole interaction or dinner of this.
Is there a social code to this? Is it rude? Or maybe it’s just me overanalyzing social interactions with new people. When these interactions happen it really makes me want to stop trying as hard.
#relationships
When meeting someone for the first time/ a mutual is it considered rude to not ask reciprocal questions?
I find myself bothered when meeting new people as I try and ask basic questions to try and get to know them and find ways to connect (work, where/if they went to college/ things they enjoy doing/travel). At a certain point is it considered rude if they don’t ask any reciprocal questions about me? It’s not that I want to talk about myself per se, but it rubs me the wrong way after a whole interaction or dinner of this.
Is there a social code to this? Is it rude? Or maybe it’s just me overanalyzing social interactions with new people. When these interactions happen it really makes me want to stop trying as hard.
#relationships
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