Do social skills actually matter if you’re really that…
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Do social skills actually matter if you’re really that ugly?
I think I’m convinced at this point that a majority of my social issues are due to the fact that I’m like a three out of 10 in appearance. Even when I clean up nicely and look decently lean, I’m still pretty much regarded as unattractive due to unfixable factors. Unfortunately, I don’t have time to compensate by becoming a bodybuilder, and I don’t really have friends and connections that can get me a lot of money at the moment.
In college, I don’t get bullied to my face as much as I did, if really at all; but I’m still excluded and consider myself to be an outcast. People on here will tell me all the time that I look fine but occasionally someone will come along and tell me the truth so I’m just gonna agree for now that I am a three out of 10 and looks and I’ve just given a pretty bad hand. Unfortunately, that hand also includes having me look like someone with a mental disability so I’m usually viewed through that lens as well.
Is there any advice you can give to someone like me who doesn’t even really have bad social skills and wants to be more social but constantly get rejected and treated as if they are beneath everyone because of something pretty much out of their control? Are there any fellow uglies who know how to play the rulebook we were given?
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I think I’m convinced at this point that a majority of my social issues are due to the fact that I’m like a three out of 10 in appearance. Even when I clean up nicely and look decently lean, I’m still pretty much regarded as unattractive due to unfixable factors. Unfortunately, I don’t have time to compensate by becoming a bodybuilder, and I don’t really have friends and connections that can get me a lot of money at the moment.
In college, I don’t get bullied to my face as much as I did, if really at all; but I’m still excluded and consider myself to be an outcast. People on here will tell me all the time that I look fine but occasionally someone will come along and tell me the truth so I’m just gonna agree for now that I am a three out of 10 and looks and I’ve just given a pretty bad hand. Unfortunately, that hand also includes having me look like someone with a mental disability so I’m usually viewed through that lens as well.
Is there any advice you can give to someone like me who doesn’t even really have bad social skills and wants to be more social but constantly get rejected and treated as if they are beneath everyone because of something pretty much out of their control? Are there any fellow uglies who know how to play the rulebook we were given?
#relationships
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