When i drink im outgoing friendly and ive made a lot of friends with my drunk personality, when people meet me for the first time when im drunk they always invite me to the next things, im basically saying people like me when im drunk. When im sober im almost always left out of all social events at work like they hangout and i dont get an invite and they make plans infront of me.
I dont know what i should do i just feel so muted and i want to talk to people and for them to like me but it literally feels like im the last person everyone wants to talk to.
So my question is has anyone been able to achieve this. I think my life would be better in all aspects if i could just have 2 drinks in me at all times lol.
Looking for actionable things to help. I already mediate and exercise. And have been reading books.
Ps im not gonna be an alcoholic. I would rather just remain socially undesirable haha #relationships source