Twins-one made higher level team but the other didn’t
My sons (14) have played travel soccer for 2 years, just went through tryouts again. They play different positions and one is a little better and plays offense with more scoring opportunities. The other plays defense and is very good but not as showy. Today I get a call from the club director telling me kid A made the elite team but kid B will stay on the same base level travel team. These guys are as tight as can be and there is so much upheaval I don’t know how to deal with it. The one who made it can’t enjoy the accomplishment, the one who didn’t is second guessing life choices. Any advice that can be offered in this twin-specific scenario would be welcome. #relationships source