I was hanging out with a friend on the weekend, and when I caught two glances at her phone, I saw that she had 16 messages on Facebook messenger and 10 DMs on Instagram, and she's not someone I would have picked for being insanely popular, but at least now I know why she takes so long to reply to me. And she's not the only one whose phone I've glanced at and seen they had tons of messages.
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My point is, I wouldn't even message that many different people in a whole year. It's been years since I last checked my phone to more than 2 DMs at the same time.
Maybe I am more lonely than I think and that everyone else has way more friends then I do. Never in a million years would my DMs ever look like that. #relationships source