No kiss on the first date? Decided to try dating apps…
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No kiss on the first date?
Decided to try dating apps after not dating for a few years. Been on hinge and matched with a girl. Ended up going out for dinner. Things went great, good conversation and we both laughed a lot.
For reference, my expectations were rock bottom. I’ve never met up with someone I’ve met over an app or the internet. As long as she showed up and didn’t try to stab me or something by the end of the night then I would have been satisfied.
As the night ended we walked back to our cars. She said she has a good time, I said the same and I asked for her number, she gave it to me. Gave her a hug. I said I’d see her later and turned to walk get in my car. She said “ookkkk enjoy the rest of your night” in a “uuggghhhh” type of tone which really threw me off. Wasn’t until I drove off that I realized she was probably expecting a kiss since things went well and I just walked off.
Texted her the next day saying I had a great time and I’d love to take her out again sometime soon. No response, it’s been roughly 24 hours now.
I’ve almost always treated a first date as strictly a get to know you type of thing, and I don’t try anything physical. Never had an issue in the past with doing it this way. One girl I dated even explicitly told me that she liked that I was respectful and seemed genuinely interested in getting to know her the first time we got together and wasn’t trying to do anything else. So I guess my perception here is skewed from that and never having it be an issue with other girls.
I’m just a bit flabbergasted that this ended up being a deal breaker. I’m not even really opposed to kissing on the first date or anything I’ve just always done it this way so I never really considered doing things any other way. Like we really hit it off and I’m confused that she wouldn’t at least go for a second date? 🤷🏻♂️
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Decided to try dating apps after not dating for a few years. Been on hinge and matched with a girl. Ended up going out for dinner. Things went great, good conversation and we both laughed a lot.
For reference, my expectations were rock bottom. I’ve never met up with someone I’ve met over an app or the internet. As long as she showed up and didn’t try to stab me or something by the end of the night then I would have been satisfied.
As the night ended we walked back to our cars. She said she has a good time, I said the same and I asked for her number, she gave it to me. Gave her a hug. I said I’d see her later and turned to walk get in my car. She said “ookkkk enjoy the rest of your night” in a “uuggghhhh” type of tone which really threw me off. Wasn’t until I drove off that I realized she was probably expecting a kiss since things went well and I just walked off.
Texted her the next day saying I had a great time and I’d love to take her out again sometime soon. No response, it’s been roughly 24 hours now.
I’ve almost always treated a first date as strictly a get to know you type of thing, and I don’t try anything physical. Never had an issue in the past with doing it this way. One girl I dated even explicitly told me that she liked that I was respectful and seemed genuinely interested in getting to know her the first time we got together and wasn’t trying to do anything else. So I guess my perception here is skewed from that and never having it be an issue with other girls.
I’m just a bit flabbergasted that this ended up being a deal breaker. I’m not even really opposed to kissing on the first date or anything I’ve just always done it this way so I never really considered doing things any other way. Like we really hit it off and I’m confused that she wouldn’t at least go for a second date? 🤷🏻♂️
#relationships
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