People pleasing vs poor boundaries or what if someone…
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People pleasing vs poor boundaries or what if someone pushes your boundary.
The issue I have is that I don't think I will people please most of the time. However if someone pushes my boundary, I just let them. Not in every situation but at times I have just let it slide or gone a long with it. Even when its been my bestie.
I think because I can be honest and blunt about certain things that annoy me and my bestie is one to not say anything unless its more an argument or will do things in a passive aggressive way, which annoys me so I tell them that but then they don't say that much so its like I am the one criticising and deep down its like is that me being a problem.
I also do like being right and can go on about things and can be defensive, which are all things I need to improve on. However its like I know that so its like my brain is like I am not perfect myself so its like should I allow things more. We aren't friends anymore but its like almost like the brain has so many doubts that it pushes back, like accept it because I have made mistakes.
However its like is it just me being a people pleaser or just having poop boundaries.
#relationships
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The issue I have is that I don't think I will people please most of the time. However if someone pushes my boundary, I just let them. Not in every situation but at times I have just let it slide or gone a long with it. Even when its been my bestie.
I think because I can be honest and blunt about certain things that annoy me and my bestie is one to not say anything unless its more an argument or will do things in a passive aggressive way, which annoys me so I tell them that but then they don't say that much so its like I am the one criticising and deep down its like is that me being a problem.
I also do like being right and can go on about things and can be defensive, which are all things I need to improve on. However its like I know that so its like my brain is like I am not perfect myself so its like should I allow things more. We aren't friends anymore but its like almost like the brain has so many doubts that it pushes back, like accept it because I have made mistakes.
However its like is it just me being a people pleaser or just having poop boundaries.
#relationships
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