Most couples would sleep better and argue less if they…
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Most couples would sleep better and argue less if they stopped treating separate beds like a relationship failure
I honestly think a huge number of couples would be happier, sleep better, and argue less if sleeping in separate beds wasn’t treated like some relationship failure.
People have completely different: sleep schedules, body temperatures, snoring levels, blanket preferences and movement during sleep
And somehow we still act like forcing two people into the same bed every night is the ultimate sign of relationship success.
Meanwhile a lot of couples are secretly: sleeping badly, waking each other up constantly, losing sleep for years, and pretending it’s romantic
I genuinely think older generations had a point with separate beds sometimes.
Wanting good sleep does not automatically mean the relationship is cold, distant, or unhealthy. If anything, being well-rested probably helps the relationship more than pretending sleep deprivation is intimacy.
#conversation
I honestly think a huge number of couples would be happier, sleep better, and argue less if sleeping in separate beds wasn’t treated like some relationship failure.
People have completely different: sleep schedules, body temperatures, snoring levels, blanket preferences and movement during sleep
And somehow we still act like forcing two people into the same bed every night is the ultimate sign of relationship success.
Meanwhile a lot of couples are secretly: sleeping badly, waking each other up constantly, losing sleep for years, and pretending it’s romantic
I genuinely think older generations had a point with separate beds sometimes.
Wanting good sleep does not automatically mean the relationship is cold, distant, or unhealthy. If anything, being well-rested probably helps the relationship more than pretending sleep deprivation is intimacy.
#conversation
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