How do I stop caring so much about what other people think of my appearance and personality?
It finally struck me recently that no one cares!
I try to put myself in other’s shoes for some perspective. How much time do I spend thinking about my co-workers or my friends? Literally no more than a few seconds at a time, if at all. And I imagine it’s the same for me. Nobody thinks about what shirt I’m wearing, or what color shoes, or if my hair is too long.
Even though I realize this, I still spend an hour on my appearance every day before work. I still over analyze how I talk and sound to others. How do I end this? #relationships source