Pressure to have children from parents I'm 21m and my wife…
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Pressure to have children from parents
I'm 21m and my wife is 20f,
We live with my parents, it's been a year to our marriage and my mum is angry at me that I wanna save up and buy a house instead of having a kid now.
She says she's ashamed that everyone asks her oh any good news, and she has nothing to say.
Her reasonings are that she says Allah teaches us that rizq will come regardless of having kids etc etc. and also my dad is old and sick and she says aren't you ashamed you only think about yourself, you don't want your dad to see happiness etc. Keeps asking me why I don't wanna have kids rn
I don't really wanna have a kid rn I'm young, I wanna enjoy life, I wanna atleast pay a deposit off.
What do I do?
#religion
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I'm 21m and my wife is 20f,
We live with my parents, it's been a year to our marriage and my mum is angry at me that I wanna save up and buy a house instead of having a kid now.
She says she's ashamed that everyone asks her oh any good news, and she has nothing to say.
Her reasonings are that she says Allah teaches us that rizq will come regardless of having kids etc etc. and also my dad is old and sick and she says aren't you ashamed you only think about yourself, you don't want your dad to see happiness etc. Keeps asking me why I don't wanna have kids rn
I don't really wanna have a kid rn I'm young, I wanna enjoy life, I wanna atleast pay a deposit off.
What do I do?
#religion
source
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