It never gets better, does it? Hey guys and gals, I…
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It never gets better, does it?
Hey guys and gals,
I \[25M\] think I've had enough. Apps, in-person gatherings, events, and nothing. Relentlessly putting myself out there at every opportunity has gotten me nowhere. I've been single since I was 20, and I know for a fact I'm a good candidate. I've only been using Hinge seriously for about 7 months, but I've gone on dates with almost 25 women and had matches with about 50-60. Obviously it means nothing but if anything, it's a clear indicator I'm interesting enough to be engaged with. I also absolutely have more than enough healthy female friendships and not one of them can figure out what the problem is either.
Every last date I've been on has:
A: Ended in being ghosted
B: Being told "I'm not ready for a relationship" (which is fine if true, I don't get hung up over this as badly)
C: Being told that I'm not enough for them or "not what they're looking for". Good enough for sex or the casual fling, but not good enough to date long term. Ouch.
I'm thrown into the ring constantly taking rejection after rejection, blow after blow after blow. I've gone to the gym for 4 years and it has not done a single fucking thing to improve my mental state.
It's just so exhausting knowing that I could have almost everything else I want in life taken care of but still be passed up constantly for not being good enough with zero explanation as to why, being left to pick up the pieces. Empathy from my friends doesn't even begin to soothe the growing hole I have eating away at my heart. Neither does casual sex, I'm way past that.
Good luck to the rest of you but I think some people are just destined to die alone. I'm one of those people.
#relationships
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Hey guys and gals,
I \[25M\] think I've had enough. Apps, in-person gatherings, events, and nothing. Relentlessly putting myself out there at every opportunity has gotten me nowhere. I've been single since I was 20, and I know for a fact I'm a good candidate. I've only been using Hinge seriously for about 7 months, but I've gone on dates with almost 25 women and had matches with about 50-60. Obviously it means nothing but if anything, it's a clear indicator I'm interesting enough to be engaged with. I also absolutely have more than enough healthy female friendships and not one of them can figure out what the problem is either.
Every last date I've been on has:
A: Ended in being ghosted
B: Being told "I'm not ready for a relationship" (which is fine if true, I don't get hung up over this as badly)
C: Being told that I'm not enough for them or "not what they're looking for". Good enough for sex or the casual fling, but not good enough to date long term. Ouch.
I'm thrown into the ring constantly taking rejection after rejection, blow after blow after blow. I've gone to the gym for 4 years and it has not done a single fucking thing to improve my mental state.
It's just so exhausting knowing that I could have almost everything else I want in life taken care of but still be passed up constantly for not being good enough with zero explanation as to why, being left to pick up the pieces. Empathy from my friends doesn't even begin to soothe the growing hole I have eating away at my heart. Neither does casual sex, I'm way past that.
Good luck to the rest of you but I think some people are just destined to die alone. I'm one of those people.
#relationships
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