It’ll happen when you stop trying is BS That sentence is…
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It’ll happen when you stop trying is BS
That sentence is so stupid and every friend that I have who is in a relationship says that to me any time relationships are brought up. What’s worse is they always give me that look of pity when they say it. I recently let my friends redownload bumble on my phone to look through it and the more they saw the more they got that dumb look. Afterwards I had two of them pull me aside and give me the “oh it happens when you’re not trying” speech. Frankly, whether or not I try makes no difference.
90% of the time I’m completely fine with being single. But every once in a while, when I'm in a room filled with my friends and their partners it just sucks. There's also one person whose favorite pastime is rub salt into that wound; to this day I don't know what her problem is, and I can only guess but she is wearing thin on my nerves. It's always some snarky comment about something I said in a conversation and somehow transposing that as to how I don't have a boyfriend.
The last time I saw her I was talking about some of my gym progress (for reference I'm 25f, weigh a healthy weight and workout mostly for my own health, but having slight abs is definitely a bonus). Her response to the conversation was "I guess going to the gym isn't helping you find anyone either, huh?" Again, I don't go to the gym for attention, I go for my health, but for some reason that was what she just had to respond with. And she is the same person who will sit there afterwards and say "it happens when you're not trying."
Get bent.
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That sentence is so stupid and every friend that I have who is in a relationship says that to me any time relationships are brought up. What’s worse is they always give me that look of pity when they say it. I recently let my friends redownload bumble on my phone to look through it and the more they saw the more they got that dumb look. Afterwards I had two of them pull me aside and give me the “oh it happens when you’re not trying” speech. Frankly, whether or not I try makes no difference.
90% of the time I’m completely fine with being single. But every once in a while, when I'm in a room filled with my friends and their partners it just sucks. There's also one person whose favorite pastime is rub salt into that wound; to this day I don't know what her problem is, and I can only guess but she is wearing thin on my nerves. It's always some snarky comment about something I said in a conversation and somehow transposing that as to how I don't have a boyfriend.
The last time I saw her I was talking about some of my gym progress (for reference I'm 25f, weigh a healthy weight and workout mostly for my own health, but having slight abs is definitely a bonus). Her response to the conversation was "I guess going to the gym isn't helping you find anyone either, huh?" Again, I don't go to the gym for attention, I go for my health, but for some reason that was what she just had to respond with. And she is the same person who will sit there afterwards and say "it happens when you're not trying."
Get bent.
#relationships
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