Picking Up the Wrong Lessons Hi! For context, I have had…
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Picking Up the Wrong Lessons
Hi! For context, I have had issues with boundaries on my own end. From massively disliking someone to liking them and back. I've done a lot of self-sabotaging and struggle with realizing that people don't always want to "work things out" or tell the truth when I ask if things are okay.
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I've also dealt with bullying since early childhood so I unintentionally picked up the "mixed messages" part of bullying as a part of my social skills.
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I try to be truthful and honest and forgive way too easily when I am wronged. It has cost me a lot of friendships/relationships and opportunities.
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How do I go about with not self-sabotaging with grandiose feelings, and ensuring that I am emotionally safe to interact with?
#relationships
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Hi! For context, I have had issues with boundaries on my own end. From massively disliking someone to liking them and back. I've done a lot of self-sabotaging and struggle with realizing that people don't always want to "work things out" or tell the truth when I ask if things are okay.
​
I've also dealt with bullying since early childhood so I unintentionally picked up the "mixed messages" part of bullying as a part of my social skills.
​
I try to be truthful and honest and forgive way too easily when I am wronged. It has cost me a lot of friendships/relationships and opportunities.
​
How do I go about with not self-sabotaging with grandiose feelings, and ensuring that I am emotionally safe to interact with?
#relationships
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