Hi I am a 21 yr old lesbian I’ve been out as one since I was 16. Recently at work, I met a new guy whom I think is attractive and cute. I definitely did not think so until I found out he had a crush on me. Now all of a sudden I get the urge to make conversation and entertain this a little bit. The thought of going out with him sounds ok and fun, but the thought of anything romantic happening makes me cringe.