Is it normal to miss a friendship this much? I (17) worked…
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Is it normal to miss a friendship this much?
I (17) worked at a two-week summer orchestra camp this summer and became friends with one of my coworkers. He’s in college (going back in September) and I’m still in high school.
I’m introverted and have social anxiety, so I don’t usually click with people that easily. We barely talked the first week, but during the second week we started talking a lot. He probably started like 90% of our conversations because I’m terrible at starting them, but I really liked listening to him.
He’d tell me stories about college, orchestra, and just random things that happened in his life. I just found him really interesting to talk to, and I liked how open he was. It felt like we could actually have real conversations instead of just small talk. That was unusual for me because I usually struggle with social interactions, but talking to him just felt easy.
By the end of camp he started sitting next to me during our shifts, asked for my Instagram, and gave me a ride home on the last day.
Now camp is over and I keep replaying our conversations because I genuinely enjoyed them. I think what makes it harder is that it feels like the friendship got cut off right when we were just starting to become good friends during the second week. It just feels unfinished, if that makes sense. My current job is also pretty lonely, so I think that’s part of why I miss camp so much. I honestly didn’t even enjoy dealing with some of the stubborn kids at camp, but talking to him made the days a lot better.
I know two weeks isn’t a long time, so I feel kind of silly for still thinking about it. I also don’t really know how to keep in touch since he’s going back to college in September and I’m still in high school.
Has anyone else made a friend really quickly and then felt like the friendship got cut short? Did you end up staying in touch? Any advice on how to keep a friendship going naturally without making it awkward?
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I (17) worked at a two-week summer orchestra camp this summer and became friends with one of my coworkers. He’s in college (going back in September) and I’m still in high school.
I’m introverted and have social anxiety, so I don’t usually click with people that easily. We barely talked the first week, but during the second week we started talking a lot. He probably started like 90% of our conversations because I’m terrible at starting them, but I really liked listening to him.
He’d tell me stories about college, orchestra, and just random things that happened in his life. I just found him really interesting to talk to, and I liked how open he was. It felt like we could actually have real conversations instead of just small talk. That was unusual for me because I usually struggle with social interactions, but talking to him just felt easy.
By the end of camp he started sitting next to me during our shifts, asked for my Instagram, and gave me a ride home on the last day.
Now camp is over and I keep replaying our conversations because I genuinely enjoyed them. I think what makes it harder is that it feels like the friendship got cut off right when we were just starting to become good friends during the second week. It just feels unfinished, if that makes sense. My current job is also pretty lonely, so I think that’s part of why I miss camp so much. I honestly didn’t even enjoy dealing with some of the stubborn kids at camp, but talking to him made the days a lot better.
I know two weeks isn’t a long time, so I feel kind of silly for still thinking about it. I also don’t really know how to keep in touch since he’s going back to college in September and I’m still in high school.
Has anyone else made a friend really quickly and then felt like the friendship got cut short? Did you end up staying in touch? Any advice on how to keep a friendship going naturally without making it awkward?
#relationships
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