Getting scared I won't ever meet a nerdy girl who's…
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Getting scared I won't ever meet a nerdy girl who's compatible with me
I (24M) have been single all my life. I had a few dates when I was in college but nothing ever really went anywhere other than a single hook-up. I was pretty isolated growing up and I've always found myself fitting in with the "nerd" crowd (as in playing video games and board games, liking indie movies, anime, going to alt concerts, in STEM, etc). Though I used to be unhealthy looking, I would say I'm fairly attractive now. I work as a software engineer in a big city, go out with friends several times a week, do a bunch of outdoorsy stuff, go to the gym, eat healthy, etc. But honestly I've never gotten close to a relationship.
I have been using dating apps for several weeks and it's just a depressing experience. There are a handful of nerdy girls who are pretty cute but I don't match with them. I get the impression that there are literally hundreds of men lining up to ask these girls out.
Maybe I'm particularly picky for wanting a nerdy woman but honestly I've never found myself getting along with anyone else. The dates I've gotten along well with were nerds and all of my biggest unrequited crushes were also nerds. Maybe it's weird to make it a part of my identity but these are the people I like to be around and who I truly feel myself with.
So is my luck just awful or are my type of women really just this rare?
#relationships
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I (24M) have been single all my life. I had a few dates when I was in college but nothing ever really went anywhere other than a single hook-up. I was pretty isolated growing up and I've always found myself fitting in with the "nerd" crowd (as in playing video games and board games, liking indie movies, anime, going to alt concerts, in STEM, etc). Though I used to be unhealthy looking, I would say I'm fairly attractive now. I work as a software engineer in a big city, go out with friends several times a week, do a bunch of outdoorsy stuff, go to the gym, eat healthy, etc. But honestly I've never gotten close to a relationship.
I have been using dating apps for several weeks and it's just a depressing experience. There are a handful of nerdy girls who are pretty cute but I don't match with them. I get the impression that there are literally hundreds of men lining up to ask these girls out.
Maybe I'm particularly picky for wanting a nerdy woman but honestly I've never found myself getting along with anyone else. The dates I've gotten along well with were nerds and all of my biggest unrequited crushes were also nerds. Maybe it's weird to make it a part of my identity but these are the people I like to be around and who I truly feel myself with.
So is my luck just awful or are my type of women really just this rare?
#relationships
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