How can I stop being so neurotic? Im dying of my own…
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How can I stop being so neurotic? Im dying of my own cringe.
So, I'm taking a group communication class. Therefore, I'm part of a group. The same group the whole semester. I feel like I've already embarrassed myself to the point of no return. For context: I have 100% in ALL of my classes. I'm very, very obsessive over my grades. They are important to me. I feel as though my peers don't really care about more than getting a passing grade. I've been trying very hard to show charisma, but I feel like it's coming across as cringey instead. For example, we have a group speech due today. We had agreed (as a group) to record it and submit it, rather than deliver it in class. Everyone bailed at the last minute and just decided to do it in class. Without practicing. At all. I'm so worried that we will go over time and have points deducted. I'm not the type of person to wing it.
Here's the last text I sent to the group,
"I sent this to Ivan, for full transparency: "Could you please add it to the group minutes that they decided to do it in class? I'm confused as to why we can't at least practice but I'm honestly not trying to upset anyone. I'm just conflicted about it. I would add it myself but I'm not sure how to word it and I definitely don't want to seem passive aggressive or anything of the sort. I also really like how you have been wording the minutes. Very formal and professional!"**
He suggested we communicate in the group chat and he's totally right, because that's the whole point of this.
So, yeah I am obviously pretty nervous but as long as you guys feel okay winging it then I should trust your instincts. I just get so much anxiety about stuff like this and I am never trying to come across as shitty. It's definitely a personal problem. I'll chill"
Ivan is the group recorder, and I was asking him to put in the minutes that they chose not to practice or submit ahead of time.
I come across as super cringey, right? How can I not be like this? I feel so fucking weird trying to socialize with anyone in general, and this group communication class is my worst nightmare.
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So, I'm taking a group communication class. Therefore, I'm part of a group. The same group the whole semester. I feel like I've already embarrassed myself to the point of no return. For context: I have 100% in ALL of my classes. I'm very, very obsessive over my grades. They are important to me. I feel as though my peers don't really care about more than getting a passing grade. I've been trying very hard to show charisma, but I feel like it's coming across as cringey instead. For example, we have a group speech due today. We had agreed (as a group) to record it and submit it, rather than deliver it in class. Everyone bailed at the last minute and just decided to do it in class. Without practicing. At all. I'm so worried that we will go over time and have points deducted. I'm not the type of person to wing it.
Here's the last text I sent to the group,
"I sent this to Ivan, for full transparency: "Could you please add it to the group minutes that they decided to do it in class? I'm confused as to why we can't at least practice but I'm honestly not trying to upset anyone. I'm just conflicted about it. I would add it myself but I'm not sure how to word it and I definitely don't want to seem passive aggressive or anything of the sort. I also really like how you have been wording the minutes. Very formal and professional!"**
He suggested we communicate in the group chat and he's totally right, because that's the whole point of this.
So, yeah I am obviously pretty nervous but as long as you guys feel okay winging it then I should trust your instincts. I just get so much anxiety about stuff like this and I am never trying to come across as shitty. It's definitely a personal problem. I'll chill"
Ivan is the group recorder, and I was asking him to put in the minutes that they chose not to practice or submit ahead of time.
I come across as super cringey, right? How can I not be like this? I feel so fucking weird trying to socialize with anyone in general, and this group communication class is my worst nightmare.
#relationships
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